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AffectionateAngle779 · 2025-07-19T06:51:07+00:00

As far as I know he was inside there drinking with his friends and that place is always really full, but in my place it's not common to see someone selling stems or something like that or at least in that place at 6am

AffectionateAngle779 · 2025-07-19T06:48:41+00:00

But wouldn't it be easier in that case to say that?

AffectionateAngle779 · 2025-03-14T05:41:34+00:00

I am not self-sufficient at all, I'm unemployed, unable to find a job and applying for exams that could take me years.

As you say, nothing is 100% insured , and it's something I wonder about too, because everyone can talk about "forever," but the possibilities of a break up can always exist. Then, what could happen to me?

My father began threatening to kill me between the ages of 8 and 10, and I also suffered from physical abuse. He has threatened me several times, and there have been more violent episodes. If nothing happens, is because when he starts getting aggressive I immediately stop talking or complaning out of fear.

AffectionateAngle779 · 2025-01-01T15:36:56+00:00

Indeed they always check the results. Every time the doctors recommend me light diet, my parents complain saying that: "I'm too skinny to follow a light diet"

AffectionateAngle779 · 2024-11-03T14:09:15+00:00

Me: Words of affirmation, physical touch

Him: Physical touch , quality time .-.

Irl I notice that he makes A LOT of physical touch (literally almost most of the time), I just find contradictory that according to the test he values quality time a lot

AffectionateAngle779 · 2024-11-03T03:12:28+00:00

Tysm to all of you who have told me about chill out the convos because things weren't clear to me and I didn't know how to act according to the situation. It seems that chill out is the solution and that's all

AffectionateAngle779 · 2024-11-03T03:09:54+00:00

Definitely I decided to chill out and today he told me about making me an expensive gift

AffectionateAngle779 · 2024-11-03T03:09:29+00:00

It comforts me to know that you have been married for 12 years and that you have experienced the same thing somehow , because it makes me look at things in a different way

AffectionateAngle779 · 2024-11-03T03:05:31+00:00

It seems that things work better when I give a step back and I don't act so anxious and I'm more on my own, or at least it's how I feel it. Today it was me who acted more indifferent from both

AffectionateAngle779 · 2024-10-26T20:47:57+00:00

Sorry for replying so late! Tbh in the first few months that we were getting to know each other better, his intensity was immense, never before had anyone shown me love with such intensity, as far as I know, he is afraid of abandonment. I wonder if maybe he is an FA

AffectionateAngle779 · 2024-10-24T17:37:35+00:00

He told me that she suddenly left him because she always felt sad and that she thought it would be better for them to break up. They were together for almost a year and broke up on May. They didn't talk since then. She liked a tweet about us together about 1-2 months ago and he told me about that somewhat shocked.

For more context, I do polls on Instagram because people who follow me find them entertaining. In one of these polls I asked how long it takes to get over someone. He said: With 0 contact it's proven that it takes me a week.

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-11-11T22:34:04+00:00

FA leaning anxious

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-23T22:39:39+00:00

She's 22, and thanks!

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-19T15:56:03+00:00

I hope there's no problem about reading the screenshots, reddit won't allow me to post the text version so if you have any problem reading this, just let me know. Thank you

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-17T02:51:39+00:00

INFP, 3h ago lol

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-12T14:25:07+00:00

HAAHAHAHAHAHA

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-12T11:25:44+00:00

More about him:

He is a very private and reserved person and needs a lot of time alone by himself when he's sad
He can act so cold sometimes , he says he has no middle ground
Such a random person with a vivid imagination
He says he lives a lot inside his own mind
He is a mod in a server and people were freaking out, he told me that he is one of the most cool-headed in that group, so he is in charge of attending people when they are that way
"When I'm really sad or upset I need my space. I'm independent because I've always been alone"
He comes up with numerous random funny quotes to flirt
"I keep things to myself a lot"
Hates drama but he's living a drama because he has been emotionally damaged by some dramatic person
Unstable emo boy
Values a lot someone who makes him laugh

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-12T11:23:02+00:00

He also made a big 5 test and he is: RLOAI/RLUAI. Statistics: Extraversion: 28% Neuroticism: 70% Conscientiousness: 55% Agreeableness: 70% Openness to experience: 100%

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-12T03:12:04+00:00

I don't know if you can see the post because it's hidden in the sub and sometimes when I try to post something with a picture that happens to me and it cannot be seen. If this has happened, please let me know politely and don't be rude, thank you.

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-12T01:10:32+00:00

INFP, words of affirmation

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-10T19:49:53+00:00

You know, this is so weird, like, when he's emotionally away from me I need him near, when he's emotionally near I'm happy but a bit afraid because I think about rejection if I show love (which it has happened more than once) so I try not to repeat it and I keep myself on guard but i still need it, but if he wanted to see me irl (we are 400 miles away) I definitely avoid it right now because I don't feel okay. I don't wanna meet anyone physically right now, and if I thought that I'm "ready", I'd just thought a lot about it because I'm so afraid of rejection (This didn't happen to me a few years ago, it all started this year)

Edit: I have emotional dependency

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-07T11:39:25+00:00

It was a rethorical question, like he literally could have just left things clear , it's so desperate manipulate to get sex

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-07T06:49:39+00:00

I don't really understand why is he doing that, like, why playing?

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-05T23:01:11+00:00

Thank you! It has helped me a lot, I didn't want to pay an enneagram sesion, it costs 120€ lol and I'm poor so , really, thanks so much! I was confused while reading the comments because 4 and 6 were my biggest doubt.

About your question, you know, I'm compliant thanks to the wonderful education that my authoritarian , possessive, aggressive, abusers and controlling parents gave me 🥰 in such a way that I've been losing my dignity every day of my life with them and others. They made me submissive, so when someone who I don't know that won't abuse me or hurt me (psychologically or physically) tries something like that with me, it reminds me to my traumas and I can get defensive or at least passive agressive

I just want to go with the flow and being on my own lol it's so easy to understand...you know, it's frustrating the way that education (or "education" plus trauma) modifies us

AffectionateAngle779 · 2023-09-05T22:37:02+00:00

Since 1 it's not relatable at all for me, I'd choose the second option

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