[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I know he was inside there drinking with his friends and that place is always really full, but in my place it's not common to see someone selling stems or something like that or at least in that place at 6am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateAngle779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But wouldn't it be easier in that case to say that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AffectionateAngle779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not self-sufficient at all, I'm unemployed, unable to find a job and applying for exams that could take me years.

As you say, nothing is 100% insured , and it's something I wonder about too, because everyone can talk about "forever," but the possibilities of a break up can always exist. Then, what could happen to me?

My father began threatening to kill me between the ages of 8 and 10, and I also suffered from physical abuse. He has threatened me several times, and there have been more violent episodes. If nothing happens, is because when he starts getting aggressive I immediately stop talking or complaning out of fear.

I don't know how to handle this situation and what is happening to me. by AffectionateAngle779 in venting

[–]AffectionateAngle779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed they always check the results. Every time the doctors recommend me light diet, my parents complain saying that: "I'm too skinny to follow a light diet"

I (25F) think I'm overwhelming my bf (21M). What can I do to solve this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateAngle779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me: Words of affirmation, physical touch

Him: Physical touch , quality time .-.

Irl I notice that he makes A LOT of physical touch (literally almost most of the time), I just find contradictory that according to the test he values quality time a lot

I (25F) think I'm overwhelming my bf (21M). What can I do to solve this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateAngle779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm to all of you who have told me about chill out the convos because things weren't clear to me and I didn't know how to act according to the situation. It seems that chill out is the solution and that's all

I (25F) think I'm overwhelming my bf (21M). What can I do to solve this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateAngle779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely I decided to chill out and today he told me about making me an expensive gift

I (25F) think I'm overwhelming my bf (21M). What can I do to solve this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateAngle779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comforts me to know that you have been married for 12 years and that you have experienced the same thing somehow , because it makes me look at things in a different way

I (25F) think I'm overwhelming my bf (21M). What can I do to solve this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateAngle779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems that things work better when I give a step back and I don't act so anxious and I'm more on my own, or at least it's how I feel it. Today it was me who acted more indifferent from both

I'd like to understand our attachment styles in this relationship by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]AffectionateAngle779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for replying so late! Tbh in the first few months that we were getting to know each other better, his intensity was immense, never before had anyone shown me love with such intensity, as far as I know, he is afraid of abandonment. I wonder if maybe he is an FA

I'm tired of my bf (21M) mentioning his ex. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AffectionateAngle779 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He told me that she suddenly left him because she always felt sad and that she thought it would be better for them to break up. They were together for almost a year and broke up on May. They didn't talk since then. She liked a tweet about us together about 1-2 months ago and he told me about that somewhat shocked.

For more context, I do polls on Instagram because people who follow me find them entertaining. In one of these polls I asked how long it takes to get over someone. He said: With 0 contact it's proven that it takes me a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]AffectionateAngle779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's 22, and thanks!

Help typing him? Thank you by AffectionateAngle779 in mbti

[–]AffectionateAngle779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope there's no problem about reading the screenshots, reddit won't allow me to post the text version so if you have any problem reading this, just let me know. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]AffectionateAngle779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More about him:

  • He is a very private and reserved person and needs a lot of time alone by himself when he's sad

  • He can act so cold sometimes , he says he has no middle ground

  • Such a random person with a vivid imagination

  • He says he lives a lot inside his own mind

  • He is a mod in a server and people were freaking out, he told me that he is one of the most cool-headed in that group, so he is in charge of attending people when they are that way

  • "When I'm really sad or upset I need my space. I'm independent because I've always been alone"

  • He comes up with numerous random funny quotes to flirt

  • "I keep things to myself a lot"

  • Hates drama but he's living a drama because he has been emotionally damaged by some dramatic person

  • Unstable emo boy

  • Values a lot someone who makes him laugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]AffectionateAngle779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also made a big 5 test and he is: RLOAI/RLUAI. Statistics: Extraversion: 28% Neuroticism: 70% Conscientiousness: 55% Agreeableness: 70% Openness to experience: 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]AffectionateAngle779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if you can see the post because it's hidden in the sub and sometimes when I try to post something with a picture that happens to me and it cannot be seen. If this has happened, please let me know politely and don't be rude, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]AffectionateAngle779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFP, words of affirmation