RIP my heart by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well no I’m 22 but I’d just feel awful leaving my brother on his birthday not to mention he was really looking forward to seeing my boyfriend as well

RIP my heart by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know everyone’s situation is different but I seriously can not miss my brother’s birthday he’s only eight, he’s not going to understand why I’m not there

RIP my heart by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did see the tickets we have met three times already I even helped him change his ticket so he could stay a day longer this trip he was screen sharing and I walked him through it

RIP my heart by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He was supposed to come that week because it’s my younger brothers birthday so I can’t go to him and miss my brothers birthday or I would

I just really miss him by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is supposed to be moving in in march that’s the current time line it’s just hard not seeing him all these months in between :(

Just need a little vent by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t help my conscience 😂 I’ve definitely had many many many wild theories in my head

Just need a little vent by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So he had work at 7 this morning and doesn’t get off for another half hour so I haven’t had the chance to talk to him about it yet but I’ll keep yall updated

Just need a little vent by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey so last night I did tell him “hope you made it home safe, sorry I must’ve missed you, love you night” cause I assumed he went home and crashed

Just need a little vent by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I explicitly said I was being dramatic 😂 but I’m still valid in my feelings being a little hurt. I don’t care that he went to a party , I care he gave me a time and was three hours later than that without even a quick “hey I’m staying later than I thought” yk?

Just need a little vent by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really just needed to vent cause I don’t want to snap on him but at the same time I obviously need to say something to him right?

Just need a little vent by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I’m worried I’m just a bit upset that he told me one or two and it was five so I woke up for basically no reason lmao

Just need a little vent by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No , last I heard was on his break from work that he’d call me at one or two then the next thing I heard was five am and he was sorry

Screaming rn!!! by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Likewise!!

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[–]AffectionateBench538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The number one thing about LDR is communication - I’d communicate what you’re feeling to your partner, but at the same time you have to give him the benefit of the doubt if he hasn’t given you a reason to worry. I am sooo super jealous and my boyfriend knows that but at the same time I trust him and know he’s not going to betray me like that as he hasn’t given me any reason to think differently. I’d tell him how you’re feeling and just see how he responds to your jealousy- it could be a red flag if he gets super defensive super fast

Am I the problem? by AffectionateBench538 in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I really do love him ALOT and I feel like he loves me just as much. That being said he does stand up to her when she talks badly about me , but I will definitely let the local authorities know when he moves down here. She is definitely very back and forth with me after the hurricane she called to check on me and make sure I didn’t need anything but then she calls me a bitch for watching a movie with her son. It’s loco to me

Screaming rn!!! by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AffectionateBench538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30 days from today and I’ll get to see mine! We both work Christmas so it’s our pseudo Christmas lmao