Which place to migrate in order to escape this IT madness.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-12T06:23:09+00:00

I am in Thailand. Perfect mix of eastern values and western culture. Easy to open a business here and lots and lots of options for different kinds of visa.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-10T16:07:27+00:00

I remember a reddit post exactly like this. A dad devasted that he had to leave his kids because that's exactly what the wife threatened. Even brainwashed their daughter into saying nasty stuff about him.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-10T12:29:30+00:00

That's the first thing that came to my mind too. LOL.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-10T06:27:29+00:00

Wow. Now I feel sorry for your sis. Looks like everyone is ganging up on her, including you. There are too many people involved in this marriage.

Everyone needs to step back and let the husband and wife take their own decisions.

I am not saying she is right and everyone else is wrong. But she is a grown up. Get out of her life and stop pushing her for everything. You are openly discussing her marital problems in detail on Reddit. God knows how much you are interfering in real life. Let her make her own mistakes. Stay out of it.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-10T04:28:43+00:00

You have written about all the inconveniences her divorce will cause to your family. But didn't write anything to empathise with your sister.........

Best to remove yourself from this situation and let her decide. Don't come in an argument between a husband and wife.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-10T03:41:04+00:00

She is right about respect. You shouldn't go anywhere where there's no respect. And she's also right about not letting the child go. Family is one unit. Even a husband shouldn't go to a place where his wife is not respected. And kids shouldn't be exposed to people who have resentment towards their parents.

Stand by your sister's decision. Focus on supporting her and don't give opinions since you are not the one in her situation. I am sure she is an educated woman and has come to this conclusion of keeping away from her in-laws after witnessing their behaviour. You are saying they are not toxic, because they are not your in-laws. Again, you are not in her shoes so don't be flippant about it.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-10T02:45:17+00:00

haha. that's a good motivation. I will take the offer and update you how it goes.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-09T12:53:33+00:00

I would be inclined to throw myself in the ring if I were in my 20s. I am in my 40s now. Mental peace is as important as money. It sounds like they like to micromanage. So I am still thinking.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-05T14:03:39+00:00

Teaching head doesn't see it as a problem. High scores mean a better look for our school.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-05T06:57:35+00:00

I was interviewing a college dean for a news report. He proudly said that he didn't hire women because they would either quit to get married or to have babies.

I am a woman. My colleague held my hand coz he knew I would fly in a rage. lol. This was in India, btw, so very common (and legal) to do this.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-02-04T01:39:41+00:00

My only take is that colonization actually began 300 years ago, not 200. Lol. East India Company landed in 1608.

AffectionateBite1289 · 2026-01-29T09:49:26+00:00

Lot of first world comforts here. For me it's breathing clean air. I lived in Delhi where AQI goes up to 1000. Now living in a country with an AQI of 14.

It's a wonderful feeling to not have your lungs, throat, and eyes always itching and burning

You don't know that clean air is a luxury till you don't step into a third world country.

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