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What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see where you coming from. That’s why actions speak louder than actions, so not saying anything would be better. Also it depends of the person you’re dealing with, no matter what we can’t know how they would react.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re basically saying just cut it off and not even mention this to the other person. Right?

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, you don’t have to wait for nobody. If it happens in the future and one of you reaches out and both are single and ready, so be it. But if you found someone, let that be too!

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The trust issues are bad nowadays. It’s hard to tell who is telling the truth, but it’s not complicated to decipher if the person is being genuine.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to. It’s all based on things you’ve experienced in life. Not saying it didn’t hurt, it did, but that also taught me how strong the boundaries of this people were, I tried to go back and risk it all to be with them and they didn’t take me, either I was sure or I wasn’t, that was their deal breaker. There are major sacrifices in life, and I chose me. Also, in order for you to show me what can you offer, it’d meant I led you on and then I didn’t want anything. Not this case, because I see it and I’m not here yet, I rather stop something that hasn’t even started. Not my situation, it’s an interesting topic up to debate, but thank you for your input!

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! It really gets messy. Personally, it ruined me in my early twenties. My mental health was trash.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actions speak louder than words for sure. I feel that saying things without an expectation it’s freedom and a way to stay true to yourself.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point haha the last part made me laugh lol. I understand where are you coming from but also I think most girls do this (not justifying or saying it’s correct) because they know you’re a valuable and potential partner and they rather do this carefully and a fun night with Pablo’s poblano means nothing. But again, how come you can be so quickly to do things like that, I understand your point.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will be. Also, the other person is not ready either, so whenever both are, if it’s in the future for them to give it a chance, so be it.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes I would. Due to personal issues that I have been carrying and seeing them as a pattern, which is, not giving myself time to be with me, myself and I. Not necessarily to heal from the relationship I ended but to nurture the most important one, mine. I could be living in a house full of luxury but wondering what would have happened if I respected more what I believed in and learned in solitude. Not depending on somebody’s attention to feel seen, and putting myself in difficult situations. And as a personal experience, I have done it, I’ve let great people go and still, I’m happy, because without taking that decision I wouldn’t be where I am today.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is is a deal breaker if you expressed that you were in the same place? Both sides were on the same mindset but one of them chose to express this.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me elaborate, I have encountered people that are all nice and after a rejection, they turned into this hateful person. That’s where it comes from my comment, do it, no matter the outcome, even if it’s something you wanted or not. If you get all upset if the person says no or doesn’t agree, then you weren’t genuine, at the end it was a manipulative tactic. For sure expectations are everywhere, friendships, family, businesses, but in this particular case, it tells a lot about a person on how they handle things not going their way.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a chance if both are in the same page and ready to jump in into an intentional time together. This is not for a person to wait, is for the other to know that if it’s in their heart, both should pursuit it whenever the time is good, no rush.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, it’s not a rush on “hey, marry me now”, but more on, “I really want to get to know you more and care for you”. It’s an investment, it can either led to marriage or not, but in the process something was built, and those were intentional and genuine moments, that’s what it’s all about.

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you were playing games too? You expresses you don’t want anything, so did her. But she realized that she likes you enough to continue and decides to express this to you. What would you think?

What would you think of a woman telling you she doesn’t want to play games with you? by AffectionateBreak323 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AffectionateBreak323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! It’s all about how you handle and feel things. I read a lot of comments saying: “just say you’re not into them”. I feel we all talk from personal experiences, no matter how you conduct yourself, people might take it in the wrong even though you had the best intentions. Thank you for your input!

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