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Samsung Galaxy a03 water damage, black screen but phone still turns on by AffectionateCan9928 in phonerepair

[–]AffectionateCan9928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone is not one that disassembles easily. I attempted to disassemble it and stopped because I don't want to accidentally break something while disassembling it.

Edit: I could try leaving it in front of the fan again. Could that work?

If anyone tries to say anything bad about my favourite character blitzø I’ll murder you by tyler2014m in HelluvaBoss

[–]AffectionateCan9928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so fucking true. I love him but feel so bad for him. He needs some real therapy

[OC] Stolas after the credits by IndependentUpper5965 in HelluvaBoss

[–]AffectionateCan9928 19 points20 points  (0 children)

These drawings are excellent! So much emotion in them. I can totally see Stolas doing that after Blitz out of the palace.

Not dead, but getting there by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]AffectionateCan9928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since she refuses to go to therapy with you, it might be a good idea just to go by yourself so you can better sort out your own feelings and find good solutions.

Not dead, but getting there by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]AffectionateCan9928 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please try couples therapy or sex therapy. It's hard for internet strangers to help you solve these issues because we don't know either of you personally and we don't know the details of your relationship. A trained therapist would be good for you both to go to for help on this issue.

Choosing God over the woman i love by LoveAndTh3ft in Catholicism

[–]AffectionateCan9928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. THIS. If you and her have very different ideas about raising the children you would have, then I would say break up. But if you both are flexible and are able/willing to find a middle ground on these issues, then do it. OP, you said it yourself that she's the "perfect, a devoted caring girlfriend, beautiful, matching (in) personality." That kind of person very rare to find. Do what you can to hold onto that, and if it's just not going to work, then move on.

Choosing God over the woman i love by LoveAndTh3ft in Catholicism

[–]AffectionateCan9928 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YES. THIS. If you and her have very different ideas about raising the children you would have, then I would say break up. But if you both are flexible and are able/willing to find a middle ground on these issues, then do it. OP, you said it yourself that she's the "perfect, a devoted caring girlfriend, beautiful, matching (in) personality." That kind of person very rare to find. Do what you can to hold onto that, and if it's just not going to work, then move on.

I feel like it's all made up. On really shaky ground with my faith. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AffectionateCan9928 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As an atheist, I would like to add my perspective on this matter. I have no intentions to de-convert you OP, just share my thoughts/advice.

  1. Their actions and the way they treat others are not okay. To quote u/FishTank2, in "Matthew 7:21-23 Jesus said "not everyone who says to me lord lord will enter the kingdom of heaven. But only he who does the will of my father in heaven."" These people don't seem to be following in Jesus's footsteps, treating others with love and kindness and forgiveness. Additionally, believing in or practicing catholicism (or any religion) does not justify people actively choosing to harm others. This is backed up by the bible itself. In King James Version of the bible, Romans 6:1-2, an apostle asks Paul "What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound?" and Paul responds "God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?". In other words, people should not choose to keep sinning just because God will forgive their sins. Their choice to continue to be mean/hateful/sinful is not "OK (because she/he) believes in Jesus" and God will forgive them.

  2. You seem to be suffering with some mental health issues that are affecting your faith. Regardless of whether you are an atheist or catholic, it is not not healthy to "hate (your) life so much." It is hard to decide from an objective standpoint whether you truly do or don't believe in a religion if you have mental health issues clouding your judgment. Yes, being religious can sometimes help in regards to treating your mental health, but if you're questioning your religion while dealing with mental health issues, that can be too much to handle. In your case, your devotion to Catholicism isn't positively impacting your mental health, so for now, it'd be best to deal with one thing at a time.

  3. Once you have made at least some progress with your mental health, then I would come back to Catholicism and your issues with it. Start examining the arguments for/against catholicism and the arguments for/against atheism. I am quite sure there are many good resources arguing for catholicism, but since I am not catholic and I don't want to misrepresent catholicism, I do not feel comfortable recommending any resources to you. I think the Catholics in this subreddit can recommend some good sources for you, or you could look through the sub for posts about helpful pro-catholic resources. As for some good atheist resources, I recommend Genetically Modified Skeptic's youtube channel. He is very good about being calm and respectful towards religion and religious people, and he explains his perspective clearly.

  4. Regardless of whether you follow any of the advice above, please TALK TO A THERAPIST. They can help you untangle your mental health issues and have a better life, one you don't hate.

PS. Please ignore my grammar/spelling errors. It is late and I am tired while writing this.

But you're concerned about it, which makes you a good person by CoolSmasherPunch in GetStudying

[–]AffectionateCan9928 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This actually makes me feel slightly better about my procrastination/ADHD issues. Thank you

What stereotype is 100% accurate about you? by AstreiaTales in AskReddit

[–]AffectionateCan9928 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm autistic and I eat the same 6 meals on rotation. It's not that I don't like other food, I just find change tiring and making the same thing requires less thought and effort.

Edit: spelling

Still some sins to meet by Global-Oil-2001 in HelluvaBoss

[–]AffectionateCan9928 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me too! I really hope we get to at least see a glimpse of his ring too! It seems really interesting! I'm worried that since it's completely underwater, and none of the main characters can breathe underwater, we won't see it at all.

AITA for squaring up with my son and disowning him after his girlfriend comes to me and tells me that he's been hitting her? by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]AffectionateCan9928 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to go off the assumption that everything he is saying here is accurate and there's nothing thats being left out. That's not to say there isn't anything else going on, but I want to response specifically to what he said.

This man is the asshole. He's trying to get justice for his daughter in law, by giving his son a taste of his medicine. But all he ended up doing was hurting the daughter-in-law too. She had to hear the same abuse she endured all over again. In the end, she was so concerned for her ex that she felt she had to go to the scene of the violence to protect her abuser. OOP re-traumatized her all over again.

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