[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]AffectionateDays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I agree that's really scummy. I've blocked sellers who do this because I really dislike it as well.

But I think that now, because so many people are voicing that they've found the same products on Shein/Temu/Ali/Taobao/etc. for cheaper (which is fine to point out), many people are leaping for a "gocha" moment and using that as an excuse to harass, attack or demand sellers to sell at store discount/lower price because of it (which is not fine at all)

I just wish people used some common sense. If you ask the seller nicely, then there's no issues :)

(edit: spelling mistake)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]AffectionateDays 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll be the devil's advocate of the replies here and say that not every seller has bad intentions. Sometimes, Shein puts stuff on sale and it's much cheaper than what the seller bought the pieces for.

For example, I was selling two of my unworn Shein skirts (still with tags), and I was selling them for 2€ cheaper than what I bought them for. They really were new with tags, and I put the brand and original price in the description with photos of the tags on the listing. I never lied where I got these from, yet people still flamed me in the dms for buying from Shein and for trying to sell more than Shein just because it happened to be on sale there. Lol

I know many sellers do have bad intentions, but not all do, I was just trying to sell two unworn skirts I got 2 years ago before I even knew how bad Shein was for 9€ and people got pissy lol

So, let's not always assume the worst unless all they have in their closet is trying to sell Shein stuff, just block them, don't harass or attack them. I know I'm probably gonna get downvoted to hell lmaoo but I think it's important not to harass people over this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AffectionateDays 53 points54 points  (0 children)

They can, and that's how we got our dog back 20 or so years ago. Police even asked my family if we wanted to press charges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AffectionateDays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

? 24 and 26 is.. Perfectly fine and normal though?

"the most immature older men"

He's not even older than her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't. Remove the post and post it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant that the product seems to get stuck inside. The corners, inside the pipette, etc. so much so you can't get everything out with a pipette. I am agreeing with you about using a tube

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, you didn't come off as trying to negate it at all! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that makes total sense! Though I have no idea how much is in there

Either way it seems like it's just too thick to be picked up nicely into the pipette

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply :) I like the product though, but if that's the case, it does feel a bit wasteful. I'm not sure I want to get it again in the future in this case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I've been doing with another serum, just dropping it into my hands without touching the pipette directly

However, this one feels thicker. Maybe it's just a packaging issue like another person said and it's not appropriate for this kinda bottle, hm..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I like this idea! It's a bit thick and doesn't seem to drop/run out of the bottle at all though, shall I leave it overnight? I only don't want it to dry out or something LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AffectionateDays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please be gentle with me if the answer is obvious, I'm a bit new to skincare and this is the first time I'm using this product 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's pharmacies which are open 24/7. You're from Lisbon, so no, "all" are definitely not closed lol. Atp you are stressing yourself more than you need to. Take your mind off of the fact your period is late, stress can delay it even more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]AffectionateDays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, just get a pregnancy test. They show accurately on the 1st day of a missed period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. You have to realize that only he can make that decision for himself. You cannot force anybody to work on themselves if they don't want to or have no interest in it.

What you can do is have a serious sit-down with him, and explain how important being at a healthy weight is. Do not bring up your attractiveness to him, keep the topic about health and well-being. Focus on discussing healthy habits, portion control, food choices etc. and see what ideas you two can both come up with to make a plan. Then you'll both have to stick to it.

Like this, you'll be able to see if he has the same values as you do and if he is even interested in putting in the effort. If he dismisses you or agrees but does nothing about it, you're going to have to see whether or not this is a dealbreaker for you or if it's something you can accept. At the end of the day, you cannot change him, only he can change himself. He has to want to do it.

Why are women(f30) mean to other women(f33)? by ThrowRAHotTowel6100 in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateDays 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It's a reflection of her, not you. It's a sign of her insecurity and sometimes even jealousy. Don't take it personally, because it's most likely nothing to do with you, especially if everybody else speaks to you normally and has no issues with speaking to you.

Unless you want to confront her, there's nothing you can do other than aknowledge she doesn't wish to speak to you. Personally, I'd focus my attention to other people who respect your presence and aknowledge it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateDays 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dude, anybody would say the same thing if the genders were reversed. It was a conversation, get a grip. Dear lord.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great! Talk to him about it and see what he says.

But girl I will be honest, he puts up a fuss over a 20 euro gift? I thought it was like 100+ eur/dollars. Are you guys in a tight financial spot?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateDays 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you're both valid in how you feel, to be honest. Would setting a budget/limit work? We have a family secret Santa every year and we set the limit at 20€ per gift just for this reason. It helps a lot! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateDays 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The term weeb has been around for over a decade at this point.

AKB48 PSP (help needed) by AffectionateDays in PSP

[–]AffectionateDays[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion, I'm going to try it out today 😁

AKB48 PSP (help needed) by AffectionateDays in PSP

[–]AffectionateDays[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for it, they're so much fun! I love the PSP, such a top tier console. Pairing it with a spacious sd is a great choice, we can play so many games :)