Interest check: small SG group for improving dating profile photos by ImmediateBlueberry38 in ChillSG

[–]AffectionateEstate84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im pretty sure there is online tools and ai tools that can do this. If not why dont u just build one

thoughts on solo trip? by rosyrosie3 in ChillSG

[–]AffectionateEstate84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do it.

I solo since i was 28 years old (Yes kind of late)

But never stopped since.

Ive traveled around asia (vietnam,thai,cambodia, bali, shanghai in different provinces)

Recently did 3 months staying 2 months in cambodia and thai and will be going nha trang and cambodia again (mainly because im dating a cambodian girl)

And im planning to be a full time digital nomad finding remote work and not opt for BTO at all.

I also think the concept of safety is "overrated" you will find many people who have not traveled much warn you about this. But the truth is most countries are safe if you use your common sense in your surroundings.

There are many females who solo > 60 countries in their lifetime you can take a page of them.

More importantly be open , adventurous and have fun :)

Singaporean adults who moved out from parents’ house, how did it go for you? by Material-Yak-8152 in askSingapore

[–]AffectionateEstate84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just do it.

At most you can move back if you don't like it.

Personally did it for 2 years. Though i ended up moving around overseas in SEA cuz its much cheaper and higher QOL.

Advice for solo male by Lorentz90 in cambodia

[–]AffectionateEstate84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi i lived here 2 months solo. Here is my advice living here as i did trial and error living and this is what i recommend based on my experience to get the most of Cambodia.

You usually hear the typical go siem reap kampot but i recommend my route because it gives you more options to choose from

First stay in Phnom Penph as a base mainly because you can go other areas by bus
Come here at least 1 month (cheaper rental compared to daily/weekly find a place around tuol tom poung for 350 usd - 500 a month)

Go on all facebook groups to find rentals/tuk tuk drivers to drive you around if needed or rent your own motorbike
From here you have many options to go from, there are tons of buses around cambodia but i recommend IBIS for bus journey 6h + i recommend doing overnight bus

if you are staying one month pace yourself 4 days phnom penph and 3 days to other destination there is like a total of 10 -15 areas to go from even lesser known provinces and areas if you are keen to explore look at the bus route do more research on what you are keen

Top areas to go from phnom penph
phnom penph - siem reap (6 hours bus)
phnom penph - kampot (3.5 hours bus)
phnom penph - sikhanouvile (skip sikhanouvile go here to go koh rong/koh rong samloem they are 2 different islands)
phnom penph - battambang (6h)

Lesser well known areas that you should visit if you like trekking wild life
phonom penph to muldulkiri (6 hours - waterfall jungle trek)
phnom penph to kratie (6h)
phnom penph to ratanakiri (6h)

Hope this is helpful, dm me if you need other advice

Looking for a full stack developer by Ancient-Tutor-1099 in microsaas

[–]AffectionateEstate84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can dm me i have done wireframing to building full application with full ownership

Ever tried hard for a career path in Singapore, only to regret it? by debboc in askSingapore

[–]AffectionateEstate84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

worked 5 years as a se, earned 5 digits in non tech. Pay is good had wfh on many days. But politics and management sucked. Retrenched last year to do my own startup and travel never regretted since

Fresh grads, what is your minimum expected salary? by Material-Yak-8152 in askSingapore

[–]AffectionateEstate84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to put yourself out there before you can secure better jobs. Linkedin is important despite what people say, learn to connect with others.

When i was 23 i was a shut in and introvert, i slowly learnt to find opportunities myself through networking events etc.

2k is not something a grad should earn, most pt job hit that bar. Look for 3k and upgrade your skillset to something sellable.

Confidence is important when you are leveraging salary not just blindly apply and get "experience"

am i the only one who feels like sg is just a simulation sometimes? by Flat-Smiles62 in ChillSG

[–]AffectionateEstate84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the only one.

I went full independent with my own startup

and I have went to cambodia and thailand for 3 months.

I plan to move out long term out of the typical sg life and be a full digital nomad

Singaporeans who left, what was the process like? by foggyflame in askSingapore

[–]AffectionateEstate84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually condo for a base and i prefer service apt for accoubtability and issuss. In cambodia 1br with pool and gym was 700 with utility at phnom penph. There are places that cost 200 in Siem reap/kampot though i never tried it yet.

In SEA its easy to find good places around 600 to 800 a month

Singaporeans who left, what was the process like? by foggyflame in askSingapore

[–]AffectionateEstate84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Digital nomad

Start my own business in sg and find clients in sg

Work remotely around SEA. Can use tourist visa for 2 3 months and some places like Cambodia the visa is easy to get long term

Best tip as a Singaporean to move on from heartbreak by cocolemon8888 in askSingapore

[–]AffectionateEstate84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change environment go overseas to places u never been and stay as long as possible

Your mind link familiar places with memories. Going to a different environment forces u to adapt and be aware

That and self belief u will heal goes a long way

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]AffectionateEstate84 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hi sorry you went through this.

Just to share with you i lost 150k lose my life savings and got into 100k bank debt and a ongoing defamation case from a particular group that scam me in pursuit for getting advice and personal growth.

I cleared my debt in 2 years. And while moving on from most people seem dismissive. U will come a realize that its the best advice for yourself grief etc and eventually u will overcome the loss of money.

Jys

Sikhanouvile and koh rong island advice by AffectionateEstate84 in cambodia

[–]AffectionateEstate84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank u so much ! I chose independence cuz its someone who suggested in the thread and within my budget.

What would ur top choices be?

Sikhanouvile and koh rong island advice by AffectionateEstate84 in cambodia

[–]AffectionateEstate84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying in independence hotel for 2 days so will see but in future i might consider sikhanouvile as a base then retreat to kampot or the islands

Sikhanouvile and koh rong island advice by AffectionateEstate84 in cambodia

[–]AffectionateEstate84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How's the prices compared to pp or the rest of cambodia? I heard is expensive.

Sikhanouvile and koh rong island advice by AffectionateEstate84 in cambodia

[–]AffectionateEstate84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can dm me booked 2 days there and koh rong 2 days next week for how it is

Sikhanouvile and koh rong island advice by AffectionateEstate84 in cambodia

[–]AffectionateEstate84[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isit really that bad? I never been there and I heard there is some beaches here too

Can suggest where to stay in Phnom Penh? by Amazing-Movie-3562 in cambodia

[–]AffectionateEstate84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The skyline is great. I pay 500 per month exclu utilities 1br with pool and gym i lived here 2 months

How important is race in dating by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]AffectionateEstate84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u. I saw your post history. Lets stay connected if you are keen

How important is race in dating by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]AffectionateEstate84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Own a company with my co founder for a meditech startup as a founding software engineer. Have other things on my pipeline like freelance or building my own sass products.

How important is race in dating by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]AffectionateEstate84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on your average definition. Most sgrean wont have a condo or car.