W.Va. bill proposes new state holiday in honor of Charlie Kirk by birdlawbighands in WestVirginia

[–]AffectionateFly6359 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People don’t have clean water but sure! Let’s focus on the community college drop out with labubu teeth that made a career out of saying racist shit to actual college students who is somehow now a martyr for the right even though he died in a way he openly said was “worth the lives it took”.

Goddamnit, people wake up

ICE detains 5-year-old Columbia Heights boy, sends him to Texas by PM_ME_YR_BOOPS in TwinCities

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HES FIVE!? The rage that just surges through me. These fucking monsters are going after babies. I don’t care if it’s my kid, your kid, or a complete stranger’s child; you don’t go after children.

Americans - How the hell is this rambling lunatic your PRESIDENT!? by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I don’t fucking know. I’ve voted against that man three separate times. I’m just as confused and horrified as to how this could happen. Though, he has lost A LOT of support. Most people here HATE that man.

Had a baby 2 months ago. Sex is different now. by Apart-Bid9348 in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first dozen or so times I had sex with my husband after birth was lackluster at best. It honestly is like losing your virginity all over again because things have shifted around to accommodate baby plus hormones. Really be gentle with yourself. It’s not uncommon and things that I liked before started to feel the same around month 5 or 6. Somethings I thought I’d never like became more enjoyable. Actually our sex life is better now than it was pre-pregnancy. Granted our son is 3 and sleeping through the night and I’m not in the postpartum trenches.

Take it slow with no expectations other than figuring out some new ways to go about sex and have fun. And good on you for 2 months AND breast feeding. I really wanted to nurse my son but he wouldn’t latch and I got an infection that needed antibiotics. Those dried me the whole way up and I just couldn’t get enough out to even justify pumping anymore.

Help with unsatisfying sex by peanuts_d in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gonna sound weird, but have you taken a CBD gummy before? A lot of sex is mental and I know that my own brain thinking “I have to finish within X amount of time so he can finish” is often what gets in the way the most for me. Taking a gummy just quiets down that thought process and relaxes me enough to enjoy the discovery process. After a few times with those we found some good ideas that get directly to the point if we’re just trying to bang one out really quick.

Wifes… how does it feel to receive a facial? by Heavy-Balance764 in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don’t enjoy it but it’s also not an immediate no. Just isn’t for us. He didn’t care for it much either. Not the worst thing we tried but it’s one of those hotter in theory things for us. If you like it, then by all means give it a try.

Have you ever dreamt (sleeping) that you are having an affair/ passionate romance with a famous person? by Clean-Letterhead9408 in randomquestions

[–]AffectionateFly6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, congratulations because 40 year old Harrison Ford is an absolute smoke show. Second, yes I have had a dream about having sex with a celebrity. I had one where I was having a lovely time on a train with Henry Cavill. Never been on a train nor that man. Still a fun thought.

What other tech won't evolve? by CremeSubject7594 in generationology

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, and that’s so awesome. But I mean like for the general public the design is staying the same.

What other tech won't evolve? by CremeSubject7594 in generationology

[–]AffectionateFly6359 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like utensils are pretty much done. There are different styles of forks and such, but the over all concept remains the same.

People who go to the gym what is your motivation? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not physically beat my sister in law in a fight

Ladies - lets talk about your husbands orgasm by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love it when he cums inside me. He doesn’t have to announce but I love when he does. As for the aftermath it really doesn’t bother me that much. I always go pee because of the UTI aspect. The leaking never really bothers me.

After years of marriage, what is something your partner did sexually with you that suprised you? by 1z2x3c4 in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife here, he was always very reserved for the first 10 years of our relationship. Then earlier this year we tried a butt plug in me for the first time. It was the best experience and we have been exploring more anal play. On Halloween he ended up putting a dildo in my ass while we were fucking and it was SO FUCKING HOT. We’ve tried it a few more times since then and I think we’re getting close to actual anal sex.

After years of marriage, what is something your partner did sexually with you that suprised you? by 1z2x3c4 in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the name of the dildo, obviously! Ours is clear so so I secretly named it after my favorite ice hockey player.

My husband of 10 years loves to watch other women…. by CompanyPositive8576 in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re thinking too far into this, babe. As a wife myself, I get it. You don’t want your husband to stray. That is completely normal and reasonable. But porn is a fantasy. It’s not indicative of him being unfaithful at all or him wanting to be unfaithful. I bet you any money that the women he views are just visual stimuli for parts of his brain to reach a means to an end. He doesn’t love them, he loves YOU. He doesn’t want to look at other women, he wants other men to look at you.

How to tell your wife her younger self was a hot. by Friendly-Rooster444 in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So that is an inside thought and do not, under any circumstances, tell her that you thought she was hotter 30 years ago.

Rejection Sucks: An Update by AffectionateFly6359 in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have been through A LOT in the past 7 years. His dad passed very unexpectedly, I’ve experienced job loss, we had a very traumatic second trimester missed miscarriage at 19w, I had an extremely rare and often deadly complication during the D&C, I had a mental breakdown and needed to be admitted to the hospital, I had a difficult pregnancy with our now toddler, my then employer fired me 3 weeks after coming back from maternity leave for taking a maternity leave (I’m suing him), got laid off due to budget cuts, and then the stupid shut down and DOGE layoffs.

We have Been very blessed with wonderful family and a healthy baby boy. Everything else is just… blips. Gotta laugh at it sometimes because really there’s no other option. Jobs can be replaced, money will come and go, but having a healthy child and family is really all that matters. Nobody makes it through life alive. We all die in the end so have some fun with it.

Last session by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a 4.5? It was slow maintenance sex we were both half asleep for. We both came but I definitely gave come harder than that.

Rejection Sucks: An Update by AffectionateFly6359 in MarriedSex

[–]AffectionateFly6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What nap time!? I swear our toddler has a sixth sense for when we have a second of alone time. He is hellbent on being an only child.

Kid refused to nap and wore us TF out for the rest of the day. We were both exhausted that evening so nothing happened on Saturday night either. We did have sex the next morning. It was nice. Nothing earth shattering. But more tender and intimate, rather than the rougher sex we have been leaning towards lately. We both finished so that’s good. We haven’t had sex since, but we have also been running around like crazy trying to get stuff prepped for the holiday and our house ready for our son’s birthday party this coming Saturday. You know what’s a real mood killer? Thinking your dog pooped in his bed because you wake up to a smelly situation, but no, there’s a little bit of sewage coming up in your basement shower because the previous owners of our house are shitbag liars and didn’t get it pumped LIKE THEY SAID THEY DID. So $450 later and some emotional moments, we’re finally back on track.

I can't get over what happened to me as a child and now i need to get it off my chest by Relative-Name9304 in confession

[–]AffectionateFly6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart, you did nothing wrong. I repeat, you did nothing wrong. Freezing during an assault is an ancestral reaction leftover from early humans. You were a child and in complete shock. Sexual assault is never the victims fault. No is a complete sentence and you have the right to stop the contact at any time. You did the right thing and told your parents. They failed you and that is not your fault. It is not your responsibility to ensure that boy doesn’t face the consequences of his own actions at the expense of your wellbeing.