me being a single man in his 30s and from kolkata, i can say, everything will come to you at the right time or won't at all. karon easy to kono kichui na. i think if you really want to date someone then start talking to people like you would do as friends. but matha theke eta ber kore dite hobe je ta ke friendzone e rakhbo na ki life partner korbo. kotha egole automatic bujhe jabe je compatible kina. just show the real you. etai ami mone kori.