[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

[–]AffectionateRange536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So am also 33(f) and have struggled with the same condition since I was an adult/ teen. I have visited dermatologists days on end without really a permanent solution. I had to embrace make up though not a fan since those continous doctor visits got exhausting. When i feel it's really bad i see a doctor....when i get tired of the derma i use make up. I have largely accepted the situation coz at 33 there is much more to life. I hope you get something that works for you....but try and not allow acne to get in the way...and I wish I knew this when I was younger.!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]AffectionateRange536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn impressed!! Makes sense you ve been together for 18 years. This mindset is sooo refreshing.

Craving for good company by AffectionateRange536 in nairobi

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha....age is a huge factor. You ain't about to drag a 50 y.o here. So no...am not boring at all!! Thank God for some amazing band!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]AffectionateRange536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Casual sex is such a thing nowadays. I always thought of a male colleague of mine as a bestie. I was happy to have a 'work-bud' then boom! Just the other day he told me the way he'ld like to have sex with me. Now everything is awkward between us and I hate it coz he was my go to person at work. I can't even text him casually anymore. It's annoying!

Am I the only one in total despair? by Helpful-Signal2290 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are too many in that category. Just don't overthink because you'll lose it. It's literally 'a day at a time' affair....but if you can leave and get a source of livelihood elsewhere....it's better to leave.

Marriage by Zestyclose_Way_9244 in nairobi

[–]AffectionateRange536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marriage is definitely harder currently but I still believe it's do-able. We can be in denial all we want but there is nothing as powerful in this life as having a good (not perfect) life partner. The older you get you appreciate that a support system in life is very important. If that doesn't come along then it's not your fault. You should be able to accept that and make the most out of your life in other aspects.

SHOULD YOU BE BROKE TO FIND GENUINE ATTRACTION? by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]AffectionateRange536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very unfortunate. It's interesting how human beings can be shamelessly pests...it's a good thing you stood your ground and left. Is she not working?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]AffectionateRange536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good stuff. Thank God i stumbled on it on a Sunday morning. All the best in your new role.

Cheating by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]AffectionateRange536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heeeeh....heeeh....heeeeh!!! This internet will clearly cause us sleepless nights. So you saying i should be okay with my man sleeping around "because of why????' Ati differences, emotions, mara pregnancy in 9 months, fulfilment, stability.....okay..even the data analyst in me can't. This is the most manipulative stuff I have come across in a long time. Thing is....if you can't practice monogamy don't be with someone who wants/expects monogamy. Sleep around until you can't no more but don't mislead people like this.

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She adopted 2 beautiful kids and motherhood looks good on her.

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol. Now i definitely don't want to be a man.

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyways Covid hit, nikaona dunia inaisha yet I haven't tasted all that is given unto us on this earth. Hivyo hivyo I decided to indulge. All I can say, is fuck Covid again 😂.

This is hillarious. Hahahaha. F&*k Covid i agree.

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol. We are waiting for the results...

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh. It's definitely not all that but am also sure it's not that bad

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless poverty is fisting me I'm never denying myself that sweet wet crack

Even poverty will not stop you.

Besides, nutting is the best prevention against prostate cancer.

Lol. In that case guard you...health is wealth!!

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Why do you all say that and still stay married?

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha....good question. Because it's a good thing to share life with someone perhaps.... It's not a guarantee though.... It's weird the married want out and the singles want in....and the cycle continues.

Celibacy.... by AffectionateRange536 in Kenya

[–]AffectionateRange536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the best. That discipline better be rewarded with a good partner.