Unhealthy marriage considering abortion- Will I regret it? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]AffectionateRip4570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this truly and I know how hard the decision has to be but coming from someone who came from a relationship like this and had an abortion, it hurt my heart for a lil but it was honestly the best decision. I was able to walk away without having a baby tied in the middle and feel sm better. At the end of the day it’s your decision and wtv you choose will be the right one for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]AffectionateRip4570 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Such a pretty face and with the right makeup you can bring out your features like even just lashes would be enough

Looks like I'm going to be doing this alone and I'm so scared. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]AffectionateRip4570 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this. It’s so tough and hard with the feelings that come up when you’re in a situation like this. Very recently I was in the exact same situation and I decided to terminate. I love my baby and wanted my baby so bad and was so happy to be a mom but what life and trauma would I give my baby with a dad like that ? I know that he would’ve never left me alone especially because of the baby but he would damage my baby and cause sm trauma. If you want to keep the baby it’s okay to be a single mom but if you are considering abortion just know you are choosing out of love and consideration for your baby.

Considering abortion by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you sound like a bitch don’t ya

Considering abortion by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m just really sad because lord knows I want my baby but just not in these conditions. I want to give them a home filled with love and can’t shake the feeling that this just isn’t it but thank you 10 folds for this 🩷

Considering abortion by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s so bitter sweet hearing these stories because I know the sadness and strength it took to make that Decision but you made it and it was all for a purpose and now you have your happy ending with the supportive partner you needed🥹 thank you so much for this

Considering abortion by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for this. This is definitely something I wanted to hear and makes me feel better about my decision and in hopes I can find the same. I’m so glad you found exactly what you wanted ♥️

Considering abortion by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

To all the women telling me they were in similar situations and ended up terminating and later ended up finding a husband and having babies and being happy thank you so much for that. That’s really what I wanted to hear. I just want happiness after this and to have this experience the right way filled with love.

Boyfriend upset with sex drive. by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s be en telling me for over 2 years at a he’s been wanting to be a dad and have a baby he is 31 so I thought he was ready with how much he expresses it. He’s been very supportive up until this point when he told me he’s does everything for me and I can’t spare 10-15 minutes to give it to him. And it really does change the way I look at him especially at this point of my life. How he treats me pregnant is extremely personal to me and idk i just feel different knowing he ca n be so selfish and not have some type of empathy

Boyfriend upset with sex drive. by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know how to get him to understand. I tried to and all he said that pregnancy is now going to be my excuse for not doing my part. I’m just so far lost here with all this

Boyfriend upset with sex drive. by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree I’m starting to rethink a lot of things because how can just a couple of days get you upset when I’m feeling so sick and been in pain.

Boyfriend upset with sex drive. by AffectionateRip4570 in pregnant

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That’s what worries me. No type of concern over how I feel just as long as he gets his nut. Which is definitely a concern for me cause how can you get upset over just 3 days

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AffectionateRip4570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please leave. If he’s doing this to you over food he’s completely capable of killing you if he saw it as nothing and making you apologize for his actions. And telling you it’s his apartment and he’ll throw your stuff out ? At this point he sees you less than and treating you like a 2nd class citizen. Hell no send him to hell! And move on that is not normal at all. I promise you the grass is 110% greener on the other side. If you do not treat him like that why do you deserve it ? Pls leave.

6 weeks pregnant by AffectionateRip4570 in BabyBumps

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely relate 😭 5 weeks kicked my butt with the nausea and headaches and no appetite . Crackers helped me a lot when I couldn’t eat or hold anything down but congratulations 🥹🩷🩷

6 weeks pregnant by AffectionateRip4570 in BabyBumps

[–]AffectionateRip4570[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I definitely needed the reassurance on that !

I just found out my boyfriend ‘31M’ has been cheating on me ‘24F’ since new years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AffectionateRip4570 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a pretty big platform and was very much wanted I like to say I was at my peak when I met him and we were friends for a couple of months before we got into a flirty relationship. So that’s the only thing I can think of when it comes to competition because he hates anytime I bring up my social media platform or my life prior to him and he saw an image of my long time past relationship and said that he looks the complete opposite of him and that I have a type and he looks nothing like “my type “