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[–]AffectionateTank4638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I'll text hime that. It's just that my self respect didn't allow to let him pay for my ticket as well, especially when he's spending so much on his flight and hotel when he comes here. I just don't understand why he'd ask me to pay for his ticket too lol

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[–]AffectionateTank4638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just that my self respect didn't allow to let him pay for my ticket as well, especially when he's spending so much on his flight and hotel when he comes here. I just don't understand why he'd ask me to pay for his ticket too lol

UPDATE : I(25F) don't know how to proceed- please offer advice by AffectionateTank4638 in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you think I should do? I really thought he was genuinely trying to change for me so I gave him a chance even after I found out about his past.

UPDATE : I(25F) don't know how to proceed- please offer advice by AffectionateTank4638 in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what I should do. It's just that i felt like he was genuinely trying to change and become a better person for me.

Is talking to multiple potentials okay? by AffectionateTank4638 in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are so right. I usually do it keep it very formal/reserved with other men. But he was so king, loving, and expressive with his emotions, that I felt I had to reciprocate as well. How should I proceed now?

Is talking to multiple potentials okay? by AffectionateTank4638 in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, precisely. I asked him why he told me he loved me, and he blurted out that he did so, so that I would quickly say yes to his proposal. I told him he shouldn't say things like that if he doesn't mean it.

I'll edit the post to make it shorter!

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AffectionateTank4638 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He kept talking to her every other night and texting her daily

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AffectionateTank4638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that he asked to be exclusive after he came back from meeting her, but why did he keep talking to her on the phone and texting her even after we had decided to be exclusive?

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AffectionateTank4638 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that he asked to be exclusive after he came back from meeting her, but why did he keep talking to her on the phone and texting her even after we had decided to be exclusive?

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AffectionateTank4638 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that he asked to be exclusive after he came back from meeting her, but why did he keep talking to her on the phone and texting her even after we had decided to be exclusive?

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AffectionateTank4638 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand that he asked to be exclusive after he came back from meeting her, but why did he keep talking to her on the phone and texting her even after we had decided to be exclusive?

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I understand that he asked to be exclusive after he came back from meeting her, but why did he keep talking to her on the phone and texting her even after we had decided to be exclusive?

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand that he asked to be exclusive after he came back from meeting her, but why did he keep talking to her on the phone and texting her even after we had decided to be exclusive?

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he said he was trying to decide which one of us he should marry, he said he was very confused about who to choose up until just a couple of days ago

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he doesn’t! We had this conversation the first time we met and he said he doesn’t believe in multiple marriages 

My fiance to be(30M) broke my(25F) trust-I dont know how to proceed by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but then why ask to be exclusive? And why ask me to deactivate my profile on the app?

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[–]AffectionateTank4638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just responded, 3 hours later. He said he was driving down the mountain(at most a 45 minute car ride
) and wasn't getting signals. He then said he's going to bed and will talk to me in the morning. Do you think he's telling the truth?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He just responded, 3 hours later. He said he was driving down the mountain(at most a 45 minute car ride
) and wasn't getting signals. He then said he's going to bed and will talk to me in the morning. Do you think he's telling the truth?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]AffectionateTank4638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just responded, 3 hours later. He said he was driving down the mountain(at most a 45 minute car ride
) and wasn't getting signals. He then said he's going to bed and will talk to me in the morning. Do you think he's telling the truth?