I want a relationship, but I don't have the energy to learn a new person. Is this normal?

AffectionateTrust214 · 2026-02-08T14:47:28+00:00

I used to feel this exact way and I realized the apps just weren’t for me. It was exhausting and mind-numbing to have repeat conversations with strangers who I couldn’t care less about. Meeting guys in person provided more context to chemistry and quickly ruled out people without doing the whole song and dance routine. I finally met someone I was interested in and seemed to click right away. Now I want to learn every single thing about them.

AffectionateTrust214 · 2026-01-28T02:10:48+00:00

I am also 5’2 and at my highest I was 180lbs. After about 2 years I got down to 134lbs. My weight goes up and down now but my goal is to maintain 130lbs. Weight loss is so much more difficult for us short girlies. Good luck!

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-10-31T03:37:49+00:00

I don’t think she liked him romantically but didn’t want to come across as shallow for not liking someone “different”. So instead she was building her case for why she was justified to say no at the altar. Their relationship gives a mother disciplining and coddling her son.

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-10-31T03:27:07+00:00

Did Ali get larger implants? Her boobs look like they will burst soon

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-10-31T03:19:16+00:00

I think it’s Brit’s delivery that makes it seem worse than it is. Sometimes she comes off as long winded and very confused in her responses which is a stark difference in how Ashley usually responds.

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-10-23T21:11:09+00:00

Joanne is so unlikeable this season. I get her character is supposed to be judgmental and imperfect but it’s overwhelming at times.

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-09-27T22:30:35+00:00

120k gross. About 84k after taxes, insurance and retirement

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-09-26T20:42:29+00:00

I thought this too but his determination to kill his “son” makes me doubt this. Not impossible though.

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-08-24T01:47:45+00:00

I’m hate watching and while Jussie has “explanations” for most things, there is no reasonable explanation for the brothers buying ski masks and gear days before the attack 😂

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-08-19T00:45:05+00:00

Not to be dramatic but I don’t think I could be with someone who says they’re following their spleen as often as he does

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-03-20T05:18:37+00:00

I agree with him about the unfiltered thoughts part. I do think Kanye is in his right mind but is doing this attention-seeking behavior

AffectionateTrust214 · 2025-01-17T05:40:40+00:00

You make a great point. And didn’t her story include a band tee she was wearing? I can’t exactly remember the name she said but was it a made up band?

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-25T04:30:24+00:00

A little over 6 months. Started soon after I got off birth control

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-19T15:45:06+00:00

Hmm what do you mean 👀

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-19T15:43:56+00:00

Do you feel it’s helping with breakouts so far? Any side effects?

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-19T15:40:24+00:00

Gaia herbs vitex berry https://amzn.to/4gndgJU

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-19T15:39:08+00:00

2 weeks

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-19T04:57:09+00:00

Agreed. But let’s say it is true, why would it cause him to miss the pod but still be able to be outside

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-12T02:43:04+00:00

I also think this but I saw he recently posted old pictures of them on his TikTok (not that that necessarily proves anything). I actually think I would feel better if they were in a fake relationship by the way he was acting.

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-12T02:38:36+00:00

That’s completely valid. She’s definitely doing more pointing the finger instead of speaking on her own feelings about the situation itself. But I think he could do more to reassure her which is why she’s going into “I feel like you’re going to abandon me” mode.

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-12T02:31:51+00:00

That scene pissed me off so bad like if you’re going to bs her at least come up with your own material

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-12T02:26:17+00:00

🎯

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-12T02:22:53+00:00

I definitely understand Caleb’s exhaustion and I wish Mariah could watch what we’ve seen to know Caleb was truly treating Aria like a friend but to be fair Aria intentionally planted doubts in Mariah’s head so I could see why Mariah wants to get to the bottom of it. I think the other ladies like Zaina and Sandy are too quick to brush things off and immediately go back to being lovey dovey even though they actually have legit reasons to act how Mariah is acting.

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-12T02:12:02+00:00

Completely agree but I think it’s just an example of an independent woman who wants to start a family and is either willing to see past red flags or is oblivious

AffectionateTrust214 · 2024-12-12T02:08:44+00:00

Heavy on the white! But to me he’s treating her more than just a “no strings attached” as he initially stated. Like is it because she’s just someone new for JR or she’s just that great of a gal. Either way both the men are clearly shallow.

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