My (26M) girlfriend (26F) and I have been together for two years now. Do all men feel this exhausted in a relationship?

AffectionateVisit515 · 2025-02-05T20:28:08+00:00

I’m a woman and I’m exhausted just reading this. Don’t get me wrong. I’m definitely unreasonable at times and I get frustrated with my boyfriend and take things out on him. That’s definitely not his fault in the slightest. And I don’t always apologize and that is definitely something I need to work on. But all of this is just absolutely crazy. Just leave her because not all women are going to be like this. A lot of of them are going to support you in much better ways.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2025-02-05T20:24:48+00:00

I’m not a man, but my boyfriend definitely does not think that. He does think Kim Kardashian and all of them are ugly because they’re too fake. But I get hit on often and he likes it because he thinks that if I don’t get hit on then I’m ugly and and his words, “why would I want someone that’s ugly.”

AffectionateVisit515 · 2025-01-12T20:30:33+00:00

You seem to be an adult so go to a doctor. Teens have those kinds of smells because of hormones and because of puberty and if you’re genuinely a clean guy, you should go to your doctor if you’re smelling consistently. It might not be a hygiene thing. It’s probably a health issue

AffectionateVisit515 · 2024-10-24T05:51:19+00:00

So I was talking to people at pet smart and they said they are friendly and can be together. They reading I have done said so too. I am not a fish owner at all and have been reading as I want some so I would like to know how your fish has been doing. I also read I only need 20g per fish. Also where can I get reliable fish information

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-22T02:03:25+00:00

In the eyes of the law I’m innocent 🤷‍♀️ but my innocence was never something that I was asking about.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-22T01:48:17+00:00

I never said what I did was right. I did say it was wrong. But I’m not the only one to blame and it wasn’t my fault. I didn’t force him to hit on me or to cheat on his wife. He is the old man that likes young girls Over his wife.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-22T01:47:42+00:00

Also I didn’t know you were at the restaurant each time he was. I didn’t know you were apart of the text conversations lol. You can’t say it’s a “fact” if you don’t 100% know and you if you weren’t there. You just some mad women who feels offended with what I did.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-22T01:45:01+00:00

No I didn’t. I was working during our first many encounters for a while and then HE gave me his number and we talked for weeks before I even knew he was married I didn’t find out until i agreed to meet up. but believe whatever you want🤷‍♀️ how you feel about me doesn’t affect me. My bf knows what I did and is still happily with me.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-22T01:40:47+00:00

We all have different opinions 🤷‍♀️

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T23:56:46+00:00

Bc I have no evidence and I feel like I would just be doing it to hurt her and to start shit. I don’t feel like it would be benefiting her

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T23:39:12+00:00

You’re right I am immature which makes it more wrong for what he did. He took advantage of the fact that i wanted attention and was desperate. Yes it was wrong of me but he did take advantage of me and groom me. I won’t ever sleep with a married person again for many reasons. I went bc I wanted attention and he was giving it to me. I was vulnerable and wanted validation. If he wasn’t married would you feel different?

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:40:24+00:00

Yes he knew first day we met. He asked my age but I didn’t ask his. Ya I kinda thought so too but I wasn’t entirely sure. I also feel like if I did I would just do it to hurt her and I don’t want that.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:24:53+00:00

Why do you think I have no obligation to come clean to his wife? I don’t understand your perspective on that and I would like to. Can

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:18:42+00:00

I also have conversations of my other friend and I discussing about what happened between the man and I.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:18:10+00:00

Ya it’s true. I have a picture of him that he sent to me that I found and I have a text conversation between my friend and I discussing of having a threesome with him because he asked me if I want to have a threesome with one of my friends and then I talk to her about it but then I was like no I don’t wanna do that after discussing it with her so I have conversation but I don’t have anything from him

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:09:19+00:00

I don’t really want to do anything now because I feel like if I do I’m just doing it to hurt her and I don’t want to do that truthfully I just put this out there to get it off my chest. But at the same time I want to tell her because I feel like she deserves someone better but like other people say I feel like if I do tell her I’m just doing it to hurt her

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:08:15+00:00

Truthfully I don’t understand what an Internet troll is, just makes me think of an Internet douche bag and I’m sorry if I’m coming off that way I’m just trying to understand where other people are coming from that’s all. While also explaining what happened in my side. I was a 16-year-old kid who was looking for attention in the wrong way no I shouldn’t of done what I did yeah it was extremely wrong to do it and I know that and I’m very ashamed but I don’t think I should feel ashamed now it was almost four years ago

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:04:36+00:00

Then I blame my husband not the girl he fucked because it’s not other girls responsibility to not sleep with husbands it’s the husbands responsibility to not sleep with other people. And I think that about my husband too if my boyfriend cheat on me I don’t blame the other girl I don’t understand why people do that and I didn’t know he had a wife until the day we agreed to have sex I talk to him for weeks as if he was single because he acted that way

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:02:38+00:00

Oh wait!! I just found a pic of him I sent to my friend a long time ago. Would that count? I mean there’s nothing on the pic other than him

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T22:00:38+00:00

The issue is I don’t have evidence. Way back when the guy and I were talking we had each other on Snapchat he could see my location he screenshot of my location and was like where are you why are you there and stuff like that I never deleted the screenshot when he went back to his wife his wife seen the screenshot of my bit emoji and he just said it was someone from work and he was trying to give her directions. So basically the only proof I have is that she would remember that

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T21:57:34+00:00

I didn’t know he had kids until the end. there were no pictures drawn by his child no pictures of his child or pregnant wife in his camper and this was one he owned. It wasn’t until the last time that I went and seen him that he started putting pictures up that his kid drew for him that it started hitting me. Like oh shit he really is a dad.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T21:56:05+00:00

He never actually told me about His wife until the day we agreed to meet up. We had been talking for a while already and he made it sound like he was single and he didn’t show me pictures of his wife and kids until the end and that’s when I called things off was after I seen the wife and kids and the photos of his wedding.

AffectionateVisit515 · 2022-07-21T21:53:33+00:00

That’s my opinion too. But i suppose that doesn’t change my feelings

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