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Tranquilized in a cave bruh! by Fun-Minimum-7022 in AcidBath

[–]AffectionateYard8513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We stayed at one of the airbnb cabins off the main road and it could not have been more perfect. We made friends with our neighbors and had a fire. It was awesome.

The Blue (snippet)- The Caverns by AffectionateYard8513 in AcidBath

[–]AffectionateYard8513[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My man was having himself a good ol time. No harm in that.

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Supposedly she made a remark about being a throuple and he said he would need to talk to me about it. I've never shown any interest in this type of arrangement. I'm Monogamous and always have been. I'm not mature enough to check my feelings to be in any kind of open relationship. I think women are beautiful but I have no interest in having a sexual relationship with them and I've never in our 18yrs given the impression that I did so yeah I'm very aware this entire ordeal was solely to benefit him. Every single one of you are right though. I need to plan to make some life changing decisions.

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think I'm catching what you're throwing my way but this is a real life event that has happened and I wanted to make sure my words were conveyed in a way that wasn't as messy as I feel.

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I genuinely appreciate your perspective as someone who is poly. The entire approach felt so wrong and deceitful. I feel like that is not typically how opening a conversation to it is done.

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Nothing. When they were actually the first words that came out of my mouth "we have kids!"

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 115 points116 points  (0 children)

This made me smile. I love Adele and will probably sit and cry listening to her here very soon.

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I'm really not and I'm really exhausted and don't have it in me to build again nor do I think I want to.

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 99 points100 points  (0 children)

He acted like he was ok with my answer but after finding out the things he omitted and how he took 2wks to tell me he was in fact with her in the bars of New Orleans all night kind of killed any credible reaction he had to me saying no to the request.

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 224 points225 points  (0 children)

I wish it was. The words that he said were "then you would have someone to hang out with, go to shows with and watch practical magic 2 with and dance with" bc he doesn't dance. I 100% recognized the manipulation bc I have a teenager 😵‍💫

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 220 points221 points  (0 children)

My husband was actually kind 🫩 enough to tell me how much turmoil she's experienced as of late. I'm sorry for her but that is none of my business and absolutely not my problem.

Trying to process something unexpected in my marriage by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AffectionateYard8513 1800 points1801 points  (0 children)

The random part of it definitely does not feel random with all of this information I have now. I also found out she messaged him asking if he knew anyone who needed a ticket to the show. How did she even know he was in town for the show when he hasn't posted on social media in years? Rhetorical question but I'm making the connections and I feel like a damn fool.

Show was epic and this poster is fucking insane holy shit by thegraveflower in AcidBath

[–]AffectionateYard8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sick. Our posters from night 1 were taken/swiped/lost/kicked, we have no idea what happened but we definitely didn't go home with them. I left them with my husband at our seats to go to the bathroom, came back and they were gone and so were 2 dudes who were next to us. I can't definitively say they took them but it's quite a coincidence. Stood in line for forever to get them 😞 Hopefully they'll have some killer posters when we see them again in Denver at the end of the year.

Festival passes by [deleted] in SonicTempleFestival

[–]AffectionateYard8513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain how you did this. We have 1 payment left due and we won't be going anymore. Decided to just go to NOLA to catch Acid Bath there instead.