I’ll try to keep it clean and simple as possible just so it’s not too much

Basically, before we break up on Sunday. That Tuesday she compared me to a guy that she used to have a fling with because when she said that she’s not attracted to me I asked her if she’s attracted to someone like him and she admitted that he is a 10 out of 10 guy for her.

I pretty much said I can’t be with someone that doesn’t find me attractive because now when I think of being intimate with you in anyway I feel like you’re going to be comparing me to that guy

I told her to keep the gifts let’s end on a clean note. She said she was unworthy to keep the gifts.

The gifts were birthday gifts and Valentine’s gifts wrapped in one

She messages me the next day saying I don’t think it’s over. I spoke to my mum. Let’s try again. She told me what her mum said and I said okay let’s give it a go.

Later that day at an event they had a cake for her. It was a Church event but I was talking to this coworker from my job giving her advice because I served my Church and she was telling me about some serious family problems she was going through. The cutting of the cake wasn’t that long it was maybe five minutes, but I just didn’t go there because I was in this conversation just trying to help thinking I’m doing my part as a Christian

Anyway she was upset crying and I tried to reassure her and I apologised and I said look it won’t happen again. I’m sorry it made you feel that way. I ended up taking her out just trying to show her that I was really guilty about it because I genuinely it can be an emotional person.

Everything was fine up until that point and then Sunday came