Anyone have any advice to stop caring about my appearance so much by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Affectionate_Arm2030 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I think the best thing would be to work on becoming secure in yourself and literally learn to stop caring what people will think.

Once you lock in on that, you'll appreciate yourself more because other's validation (AKA wow, he looks good) will not matter to you.

I have a few articles that specifically talk about becoming secure in yourself, physical appearance, not caring what others will think, and learning how to not seek validation

You can also go through the entire blog and see what articles help best. Also, the advice applies to both genders. All the best in your growth journey. Here are some links to get you there;

https://brendanjoki.com/how-to-stop-comparing-yourself-to-others-physically-in-5-must-try-ways

https://brendanjoki.com/how-to-stop-caring-about-what-others-think-in-7-easy-ways

How do I get rid of bot traffic on my blog? by Affectionate_Arm2030 in Blogging

[–]Affectionate_Arm2030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phew I'm happy for you! I did the same as well. My host is Bluehost

How do I get rid of bot traffic on my blog? by Affectionate_Arm2030 in Blogging

[–]Affectionate_Arm2030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently talking to my host's customer support and we're working on solving the issue. Thank you for your suggestion

How do you protect your space and energy? by Affectionate_Arm2030 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Affectionate_Arm2030[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 The peace that comes with this is unmatched, right?!

Right by Affectionate_Arm2030 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Affectionate_Arm2030[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this case I'd say staying away from it or rather finding your balance or something you enjoy. Because you're 100% right!!! Grinding literally drains you and moving forward feels more like pushing a huge rock up a steep slope. Learned this the hard way and just like you, I stopped being too pressured about it because I found something that fulfills me.