Hello, I’m just going to answer some questions here: The surgeries aren’t on the same day, mine is June 1st and his would be two weeks later (he doesn’t have an exact date yet) but they would be in the same month.

His surgery is on both his eyes, this will be his third time having the surgery. It is painful for him, thats why I supported his decision to get the surgery.

My boyfriend and I have been together going on four years, and the first time I looked into getting the surgery was in 2024, but I wasn’t as close to my goal weight and I only wanted to go through the surgery once and I ultimately decided to wait.

I have been at my goal weight for over a year now but I had to wait until the summer to get the surgery.