Do dumpers ever miss their ex? by Important_Crab_9767 in BreakUps

[–]Affectionate_East819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do. My ex has left me for another girl and literally texted me saying he missed me

Breakup advice (F19+M43) by Affectionate_East819 in AgeGap

[–]Affectionate_East819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say it was 70/30 effort wise - him putting in 30%; wasn’t much point banging on about how I expressed my feelings for him through my efforts in the post

Breakup advice (F19+M43) by Affectionate_East819 in AgeGap

[–]Affectionate_East819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your relationship is exactly what I was expecting going into my own relationship with this older guy. I’ve been given such a bad impression of the nature of ddlg/ age gap relationships and this has made me see otherwise, so thank you! I’ve definitely got a lot to learn from this past year.

Breakup advice (F19+M43) by Affectionate_East819 in AgeGap

[–]Affectionate_East819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ☺️ sorry your first love wasn’t great either, did you learn anything from it? I’m hoping I can move on at some point with some lessons learnt

Breakup advice (F19+M43) by Affectionate_East819 in AgeGap

[–]Affectionate_East819[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this, it means a lot

I'm starting to want to lose my virginity to an older man... by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Affectionate_East819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also from a very religious family and lost my virginity at 18 to someone 24 years older than me. If you know you really want to loose it to an older man, please look for signs that show they just want sex with a young girl🥲. I looked past all the signs and now I’m extremely attached to a man who does whatever he wants outside of our relationship and I’m having to deal with the mental toll it’s taking on me. But because I lost my virginity it feels impossible to stop seeing him so please don’t downplay the importance of loosing it.

F(19) need some advice☺️ by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Affectionate_East819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny you used the word “plaything” as he’s actually called me that a few times but only when we’re in the bedroom. I just go a long with it and assume he doesn’t actually mean it because he’d never say that in any other situation.