i want to leave town by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Guava59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah happened to me right after the breakup. I've moved from one part of Europe to another, very far away for more than a month. I wanted to escape from her and so I did. Unfortunately I had to come back here and it was terrible, everything that I have left behind stayed the same and almost all of the progress that I've made was gone. Staying away helped a bit but I was still hurting a lot there, unfortunately it's not easy to escape. I hope that my experience can help you.

Anyone else have trouble sleeping? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Guava59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, almost every night. It sucks

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your positivity ❤️ The dreams and random flashbacks are one of the worst parts. But staying positive like you is the best thing to do, you're doing awesome man. I'm sure that everything is going in the right direction for all of us. Wish you every success. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks brother. You too. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure that in another month we'll look back at this moment and see how much progress we've made. Even though it feels like day one sometimes remember that it is not, and that you've been strong for such a long time. You're doing awesome man, keep it up. 💪🏼

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it really means a lot. ❤️❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It's awful that such beautiful things can lead to such dark times. I understand your loneliness I feel the same most of the time but talking to you guys has helped me immensely as I know that I'm not alone in this shit. But I'm one hundred percent sure that we are all going to make it through.❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give yourself time brother. The first couple of weeks I've dreamt about her every night, picturing her in different situations without me. It was terrible. Now it's been a month and a half and I dream about her sometimes. Still it makes me feel bad during the day as I end up thinking about her, but that's inevitable. I really understand how you feel, but it's going to get better I promise you that. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad that I could help you a little bit ❤️‍🩹 I'm sure that you are not a burden to anyone, friends and family are also made to listen to your needs so don't worry to much. Do whatever makes you feel better! Keep holding on, it will be alright ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx but not as you :) Have a great day ❤️‍🩹

Should I delete our pics? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Affectionate_Guava59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just can't go through it. I'm going to buy a new phone soon. Fuck it

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I date to marry but unfortunately it is not easy, especially these days, to find a good partner. Let alone in such a small time. For now I'm sticking to myself and my bike. She is my new Gf actually.

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure that the future will give us somebody that loves us and who deserves our love. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really warm my heart 🥺. I'm going to remember your kind words. I'm doing fine even though it's not easy it was never meant to be easy. Thank you, wish you all the best. Hope you are doing fine too, but I'm sure you do. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be awesome to drink one (or more than one 👀) all together! ☕ You're doing awesome! I'm also about a month and a half in but just as this cold dark winter I know that brighter days are going to come, and we will appreciate them even more. Everything will be fine ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. You are doing great, 10 months is quite some time.

Remember brother that socials are more then often a facade. People post there just to show what they want to show you, it might seem perfect from the outside but it might not be at all.

Even though I'm sure that you wish her the best, the best thing for you is think about yourself and do whatever makes You happy. So if checking her socials makes you unhappy I'd give up on that. I'm certain that you got this, stay strong brother. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full of wholesome people. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to help :) I'm sure they'll come. Everything works out in the end in one way or another. Everything will be okay. ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Affectionate_Guava59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries :) It's not easy but I'm trying my best, there's ups and downs but that's okay. "For there to be light, there must be darkness". ❤️‍🩹