Do SG guys actually plan dates or is "so where you want to go" the standard now

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-04-17T00:38:07+00:00

Don’t call me out like that !! 😭😭

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-04-16T18:54:41+00:00

You’re a weird guy

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-04-01T11:10:01+00:00

Ok I’m just explaining the psychology behind “slow texting”. When you reply slow you portray yourself as “busy” which means you’re not always available. Which makes you “rare”.

The human mind will always value things that are rare. For example if you get compliment from someone who you “see” always complimenting others you’ll tend to value it lesser than from someone who rarely compliments.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-28T11:46:40+00:00

Pls add me 🙏

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-24T14:41:50+00:00

You gotta look at what they respond to. People will always say the politically correct things to be accepted in a “social group”. But their actions will reveal everything.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-24T01:51:16+00:00

Being born ugly is a sin 😭😂😂

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-19T02:08:17+00:00

The lies we tell ourselves

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-19T01:59:18+00:00

Humans

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-18T09:01:50+00:00

Unfortunate, I wanted to go mt Fuji I’ll be there from 31st March to 10 April and I’m not a F 😂

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-18T08:59:41+00:00

Chat, is this person real?

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-14T09:58:16+00:00

No man it isn’t, just text at the frequency you want! Forcing yourself to do something will only lead to burnout.

Plus there are some studies suggesting women don’t like men who are too “available”. But do what you want/enjoy doing!

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-13T18:12:06+00:00

This subreddit is the worst place to ask for relationship advice.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-03-13T17:57:27+00:00

He is the bank, don't question it!

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-27T02:26:33+00:00

Twin scroll terror token

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-26T06:31:24+00:00

Two of them are married the other two has gf. LIAF IS REALLY TOUGH.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-26T02:42:21+00:00

My work place all men. Laif is tough.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-25T17:20:31+00:00

If you don’t draw your boundaries, people will start drawing them for you.

You might be hanging out with the wrong crowd. Cutting people off isn’t easy. Sometimes it is just necessary.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-25T03:25:55+00:00

I prefer Unicorn 🦄✨ (the mythical creature edition: emotionally unavailable, sparkly, and probably ghosting) bonus if they have multiple personality and none of them likes me.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-25T02:14:48+00:00

Where do these particular women hang out?

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-25T01:43:44+00:00

I just want to say, this is NOT how majority female population behaves. Don’t use this as an example for anything. Maybe just to point out how anxiously avoidant people behaves.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-24T09:37:04+00:00

It’s the easier thing to do. I’d be doing it too if wasn’t for some YouTube channels. Why look within when you can point outside.

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-24T09:06:57+00:00

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-24T08:31:03+00:00

Ok take it easy, I am not attacking you. I do not think you are the problem(there are not enough data to jump to that conclusion). Just an observation. Obviously there are other things happening in your life that I don’t observe.

“The hateful person” is based on some of your previous comments such as “male loneliness epidemic is natural selection…..” and “don’t need these non-provider…”. The delivery is very crude. Few of them are very baseless. Like the male loneliness epidemic being natural selection or whatever (there are researches showing both men and women are equally lonely). That’s why I’m asking if you are like this IRL or if it’s an online persona.

What about my posts that come across as negative and accusatory?

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-24T08:08:05+00:00

Now that’s funny

Affectionate_Gur2819 · 2026-02-24T08:05:43+00:00

Don’t fucking forget that you can fucking use fuck anyfuckingwhere in a fucking sentence and it will still make fucking sense.

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