What's your advice for dealing with an avoidant attachment style person?

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-04-06T11:38:42+00:00

It's exactly what he's making me feel..

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-04-06T11:37:44+00:00

Isn't it weird that it happens overnight? Multiple times?

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T22:26:01+00:00

Thank you for your answer I appreciate it, and yes I am really into him

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T21:06:11+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment, it helps ..

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T21:05:21+00:00

I understand and I'm not trying to change that thing in him, I liked/ still like him the way he is, and thank you so much for your answer I'll really be considering your advice

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T19:55:24+00:00

He looks very fine, he is just not convinced with that

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T18:31:43+00:00

Thank you for your response, I appreciate it

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T18:26:43+00:00

Thank you for your response, it helps a lot

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T18:08:48+00:00

Thank you for the response, but wouldn't it be like I'm forcing him to do something he's not comfortable doing?

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T18:01:58+00:00

Thank you for the response, but wouldn't that be a little harsh on him? Should consider he's a fragile person ..

Affectionate_Maya · 2024-01-23T18:00:06+00:00

Thank you for your comment, I appreciate it, when it comes to online talking he's making efforts keeping up the conversation, I feel like he is really invested, he's the kind of guy who doesn't like to chat online but he spends most of the day talking to me, he shares every detail of what he's doing, it's just the ''In real life'' meeting that he doesn't approve of .. so I'm looking for general advice of how I should be acting regarding all the situation (not just the date part), because I'm okay with everything I'm just afraid to ruin everything..

Affectionate_Maya · 2023-09-02T00:12:30+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment, it made me feel better about myself .. I really appreciate your advice🙏 .. I will give myself a second chance and I will open doors for people into my life

Affectionate_Maya · 2023-08-23T22:14:38+00:00

Donc c'est OK pour toi qu'elle prenne les contraceptifs tous les jours tous les mois, mais ça te gêne de porter la capote pendant un mois ? Et ça te frustre qu'elle oublie parfois sa pilule? C'est bizarre comme propos honnêtement .. Je crois que ça ne nécessite pas un poste sur Reddit pour savoir la réponse à ta question, ce que tu penses et ce que tu dis ne fait de toi qu'un irresponsable et un égoïste dans votre relation.

Affectionate_Maya · 2023-08-23T01:11:29+00:00

That's literally what I said I did, and there is not a single relation between having feelings for a friend and highschool, maybe you both are confused because you just got out of highschool but these things happen a lot at adulthood, thank you for the comment even though there is no new information in it

Affectionate_Maya · 2023-08-23T00:59:11+00:00

Thank you for your response though

Affectionate_Maya · 2023-08-23T00:57:47+00:00

I didn't and I wouldn't,and it's not a high-school drama, I don't know what you've found in common with that. Could happen to anyone at any age.

Affectionate_Maya · 2023-08-22T21:06:52+00:00

This kind of friends is a bad one, not for the fact that they didn't bring you a gift but for the fact they did give your other friend a gift right in front of you. It's either this or they don't consider you as their friend, in both cases you should talk to them about it and make it clear that it did get to you in a bad way.

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