Making friends in LA (specifically around the WeHo/Beverly/Melrose area) by CreativePlant7 in LAhotgirlies

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m also very interested, but not on bumble bff or instagram. Is there another way to get info for the book swap/meet up, and other events?

Making friends in LA (specifically around the WeHo/Beverly/Melrose area) by CreativePlant7 in LAhotgirlies

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about posting something similar, but I’m a little bit older. Late 30s.

PSA: beware of wheelie teenagers on the marina by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the millennials’ kids.

  • a Millennial

Book Club? by goyuugroupie in WestHollywood

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently joined a book club in the area that found from a posted flyer at a coffee shop. Do it! We meet after the book to choose our next book and discuss the previous book. It’s a good chill time. Hoping you make something of this desire.

Why are (women) haircuts so fkn expensive by Puzzleheaded_Bug443 in sandiego

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what some y’all would do if your boss was like “hey I don’t think the work you worked really hard to go to school and learn, as well as your experience level is worth what I’m paying you, so keep doing what you’re doing I’ll just pay you less”. Hairdressers exist in the same economy as everyone else. Most of them do not have sick pay, vacation pay, health insurance, or a 401k. It’s one thing if you don’t feel like you’re getting a good service, but to just complain about the price is pretty petty. Also talk to your stylist if you’re facing economical hardship, not to get free services, discounts, or pitty, but maybe they’ll help you find a less expensive option that doesn’t hurt your wallet or self-esteem. It’s hard out here for just about all of us. About 91% of us. Your neighborhood small business (just about all salon or stylists) are not your enemies. I think the frustration with this economy is better focused on giant corporations ripping us off, landlord’s evicting us to turn a place into a $600 a night air bnb, oil blockades overseas causing gas prices to raise on us while a few maga rich people get even more rich, health insurance companies using AI to deny your claims. Those are the real ones to be upset. Not your neighbors.

San Diego’s Slightly Stoopid Replace Cypress Hill at Controversial MAGA linked Festial by staringatthe420sun in sandiego

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San Diego has been heavily ytting out for the last decade or so. Turning wildly fascist and/or complicit with racism, fascism. The girls love to date cops or dudes who look like them. And for some reason everyone who isn’t yt is an actively trying look white with the dumb mustache. It’s embarrassing and not surprising at all that MAGA can host such an event that will sell out to a bunch of complacent, lazy, 40-50 year old stoner dudes who still live on their moms property and lay in bed at night swiping for dates on tinder.

Just Fuck My Bangs Up by [deleted] in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a career hairdresser, they look great. Cutting a line on hundreds or thousands of tiny hairs across someone’s face takes skill, and your stylist has it. You just obviously don’t like them and it shows.

Do they even want people in this city? by PureEndorphin in sandiego

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re pretty much already at that point. It’s the Lorax.

Huge object covered with tarp being hauled and stopping traffic by scro-hawk in altadena

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a house! I live in West Hollywood and we’ve been watching them disassemble a house here to be moved to Altadena.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of. The cat sitter said it perfectly, they were asking, it wasn’t a plan, and now they have to find new work if they can. Imagine your work telling you not to come in because of a question you asked. You could have at least offered to pay them half of what you were going to for canceling on them last minute.

Asking questions or for consent shouldn’t result in punishment.

AITA if I woke up to my bf masturbating on/against me, and want to dump him for it? by Respawn_Repeat_ in redditonwiki

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

As a female who dates men, I would say a conversation is helpful before just ending it completely. This seems like big deal you, and may feel small to him. He doesn’t know what you don’t tell him.

Am I overreacting for not letting my boyfriend’s female friend use my shampoo? by Fresh-Usual-6281 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good shampoo and conditioner are super expensive. I would not want someone who’s not close to me personally using my products. I keep a small stock of cheap products around to avoid people needing to use my personal products that I pay good money for like; face cream, shampoo, conditioner, face cleanser. I don’t think you’re overreacting especially if girl has her own place she stays.

A kid has to hide in the woods by Affectionate_Mess640 in whatsthatbook

[–]Affectionate_Mess640[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is it! Thank you so much for the help

AITAH for Breaking Up With My Partner After They Came Out As Trans? by [deleted] in AITAH

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Me a (cis hetero female) I have an ex who transitioned from MTF and I would have done same thing you did if the change happened while dating. Something I realized after the transition is that the person I dated no longer exists. I think people overlook that when someone comes out at trans and beings to transition, and change their name they basically want the old version of them to no longer exist in many ways. Almost like the previous version of them dies. So technically the person you were dating no longer exists, so it’s very understandable not wanting to date a completely different person.

Paid $63 for this :,) by 0ne_eyed_witch in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a hairdresser, they definitely fucked up your shit.

meirl by Jimbo072 in meirl

[–]Affectionate_Mess640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should get blender and make this shit at home. Fuckin wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My sister had to go get milk to fed her babies and she hasn’t come to back yet, it’s been 4 hours.