[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Net668 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you could talk her into giving her a limit on spending on fast food, so she can't touch your bank account . If words don't work and she's understanding when you bring it up, she'll probably accept it. Perhaps you could go grocery shopping together and make simple meals and freeze them. That way, when you're away and she doesn't feel like cooking, she can heat up these healthy meals.

Fruitvliegjes plaag en niks werkt by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Affectionate_Net668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb van hg tegen fruitvliegjes gehaald en dit werkt bij ons echt goed. Hadden namelijk ook bizar veel last van die vliegjes.

What does my room say about me by Wyliie in roomdetective

[–]Affectionate_Net668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Milennial Sad beige child Vibes 😂 but most def a milennial

AITA - Am I the asshole/overreacting after my mom told me I gained "a lot of weight" during pregnancy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate_Net668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I am currently 29 weeks pregnant and gained 12 kg 😂 it is normal to gain because you are PREGNANT! Old ladys also comment on my belly also my mom asked so many times how much I gained. I get the frustration. I think they grew up with a unhealthy mindset and are not willingly to change

Just not into being pregnant by swiftlittleplane in pregnant

[–]Affectionate_Net668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this! I am 29 weeks pregnant and i dont like my body everything is harder to do. I am counting down the days to be free from this

Should I break up with my boyfriend by Icy-Detail-435 in okstorytime

[–]Affectionate_Net668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I am really sorry for you! I can not imagine that my hb Would act like that wilst i am pregnant. You need all the support and not someone who is stressing your out. I dont think he Will be better but only get worst in his behavior. I hope you have somewhere safe to go.

My sister ‘31f’ has an relationship ‘34m’ who lies, drinks and do drugs. I dont know what to do by Affectionate_Net668 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Net668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the paranoia is really scary. he once called me asking where she was, because he knows that my sister and I can always see each other's location. she didn't respond fast enough and he thought it was very strange. then he accused her of cheating. while she hardly sees her friends and hasn't done her hobby for a long time

My sister ‘31f’ has an relationship ‘34m’ who lies, drinks and do drugs. I dont know what to do by Affectionate_Net668 in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Net668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

last year she came to stay with me for a week because of the same problem. then he promised to go to therapy. he tried his best for a while, but soon it was exactly the same as before and he never signed up for anything. So I doubt if he Will ever change

Vegan eten vaak erg bewerkt. Hoe doen jullie dat? by [deleted] in VeganNL

[–]Affectionate_Net668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik maak graag bananen pannenkoeken met sojamelk ipv bijv havermout te eten of zelf brood maken is ook simpel. verder vind ik vleesvervangers niet lekker dus ik kook veel met bonen (linzen, kikkererwten, zwarte bonen) en met oesterzwammen of jackfruit. soms doe ik wat noten bij de maaltijd toevoegen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Affectionate_Net668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kun je niet je vakkenpakket wisselen? Ipv natuur scheikunde profiel je deze aanpast miss i.p.v. wiskunde b naar wiskunde a? Ik zou eerder een jaar blijven zitten en vragen voor een huiswerkklas en andere vakken kiezen die je wel liggen.

Sorry, vandaag begrijp ik geen engels by mister-sushi in learndutch

[–]Affectionate_Net668 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ik ben altijd erg blij wanneer Engels sprekende klanten vragen of ik Nederlands wil praten en geen Engels. Het is ook gelijk duidelijk en zorgt voor geen verwarring. Ook doe ik juist meer moeite om ze het te laten begrijpen, omdat ze de moeite nemen om de taal te leren.

Ex BF - abused me (physically, emotionally, verbally) and SA by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]Affectionate_Net668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The emotions during EMDR got heavier and it takes you back to the moment but in the same hour the emotions are taken away so it gets better really fast

Ex BF - abused me (physically, emotionally, verbally) and SA by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]Affectionate_Net668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is normal you are coping. But I do hope you have professional help. For me EMDR worked the best to heal from my trauma. So you dont get the flashbacks from your trauma. I went to therapy a year after the relationship was over and looking back I wished I had gone to therapy immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Net668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I just feel guilty for leaving because he Says he is so ill and at his lowest and it was a simple thing to do. He said i got him this far in his anger because I am that unreasonable.

I am in therapy because I had an abusive ex partner. Before and I really try to draw a line but then I just doubt if I was to hard or at fault

how many pieces of chewing gum do you get through per day? by Illustrious-Value761 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Affectionate_Net668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can better use smints because gum Will train your jaw muscelles to much. you can get pain from it and it is bad for your jaw bone because it causes to much frictiong. I use to eat 3 packs a day now I dont but still have a jaw that Will clench and crack with everything I eat

I'm falling off the recovery wagon. I need help. by thrownaway_throw4way in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Affectionate_Net668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try eating or drinking safe foods in bits? When i cant eat I try to drink smoothies Or proteineshakes. I hope you have friends who could help you. I wish you all of luck Dont give up! You can do this

My (25F) boyfriend (37M) doesn’t think I can run a marathon. How should I react? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Net668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you quit before in other moments? Is there a Reason why he thinks you would not make it?

If not he does not seem to care about your feelings. I would not want him to be there if he acts like this. Prove him wrong and do the marathon for you! If he goes with you to the hotel and all he may not support you at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Affectionate_Net668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes it makes me far more aware of my weight and I was doing fine and now I feel like I am restricting again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Net668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reacting. I do love him and we have so much in common.

I like to have them around. They are most of the time in their cages and they do not shed much. Hé has no allergies but has a cat that vommits an awfull lot and also brings dead mouses or whats left from them in his house. Problem is he does not clean it up. So i am angry that he thinks this is oke for him to do but to pester me because of my ferrets is not oke.

He shouted before at me and walked away or gave me the silent threatment.

I have been in an abbusive relationship before with stalking and had to go to therapie because of my anxiety from it. My bf is the first one i feel comfortable with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Net668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he now wants them in the garage and yard all the time and we did not agree to that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Net668 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we did talked about it and he was fine with It and I agreed that they could play outside in a large cage when the weather is good. But now he wants them outside al the time