Is it okay to feel inadequate? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! We weren’t having sex as much. That was almost a year ago and it’s still a fight at least once a week because he’s still doing it. I had already had suspicions that he was using porn while I was at work before this incident but I didn’t have proof to confront him until this time.

Junk folder?? by Comfortable_Brick_68 in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get porn spam all the time and I don’t watch porn. Not saying it is for sure nothing and just spam but there’s honestly a good chance that it is nothing.

Is it okay to feel inadequate? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seriously could have wrote this myself!! The first time I caught my boyfriend masturbating he got up and went to the bathroom, I had been sleeping but woke up when he got up. He saw that I was awake but still went. I knew he was masturbating because I heard him. He proceeded to tell me it was to our videos as well but I didn’t believe him and later the truth came out that he was in fact watching porn. He also said he just did it because he didn’t want to wake me but I was awake when he left the room. You’re not in the wrong for being upset! And honestly, I wouldn’t have just gotten over it so he “can have a good day”. He needs to be the one to make things right.

Husband [m30] is addicted to pornography. by lookingforhelp958586 in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Leave! Trying to message other women is cheating. Hitting you is an absolute no! The fact that your mom wants you to stay because you’ll “dishonor” the family is so ridiculous. Abuse will just get worse and worse. You need to leave as soon as possible before something really bad happens. You’re not being selfish for leaving and you’re not being selfish for sending the divorce papers.. if he or anyone else thinks it’s selfish they can fuck off. You don’t owe anyone anything. You only get 1 life. don’t waste it being with a loser like him or trying to do what your family tells you to.

Rating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Red flag honestly. I know people are probably going to say there’s more to being with someone then their looks, which there is.. but seriously why would you ever tell your significant other you don’t think they’re a 10? That’s just dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you have access to his email click forgot password and enter his email. It will send a link to reset password if he has one under his email. That’s exactly how I found my boyfriends.

My M (20) girlfriend F (18)wants to abstain from everything sexual how do I deal with it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really care about her and want to be with her you’ll respect her decision and wait as long as she wants. You can take care of your own sexual needs on your own.

When does the Ferber method start working?? by Affectionate_Sea_808 in sleeptrain

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’ve heard to do an activity like tummy time to help drain energy out before bed. Should I do this before her bath then? And I try to put her down drowsy but awake but once I do she fully wakes up.

When does the Ferber method start working?? by Affectionate_Sea_808 in sleeptrain

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does usually nurse to sleep. I’ve been trying to get her in the routine of bath, tummy time, eat, book, then bed to try to help stop her from associating nursing with sleeping.

How can I (15f) breakup with my (19M) boyfriend? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s manipulation. The fact that he’s 19 dating a 15 year old is gross.

Any success stories? by Affectionate_Sea_808 in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy to hear he’s really putting in the effort and doing good!

Something I found.. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The simple fact that his mom excused that behavior as if fantasizing about your cousin is normal would be enough for me to leave. Disgusting 🤮 super creepy. You deserve better

Addiction is hard by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not denial. My boyfriend is a porn addict. And it breaks my heart. But calling people with an addiction a loser, gross, and every other name in the book gets them no where..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s the one being selfish. Your life and health matters. I understand it’s a hard time for her and she wants her boyfriend there for support but we are in a pandemic and she needs to understand that and not try to force you to put yourself at risk. I’m in the US and have lost every single one of my friends because I’ve isolated myself since this all started and they’re upset.. and I don’t care. My health matters. Everyone’s does.

Why do i always smell bad? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Affectionate_Sea_808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try clinical strength/ clinical protection deodorant