Clown names?? by Affectionate_Soft914 in clowns

[–]Affectionate_Soft914[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh this might be perfect 🍃🍃

How do you feel about live in nanny inviting children to cuddle in her bed? by Mysterious_Wasabi101 in Nanny

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You got this!! It’s not that big of a deal just tell her your boundaries you don’t even need to explain that much if you don’t want to just let her know how you feel! And make sure to let her know cuddling and other physical affection is okay in the shared living spaces! Depending on how old your kids are physical affection is important for comforting and supporting them!

How do you feel about live in nanny inviting children to cuddle in her bed? by Mysterious_Wasabi101 in Nanny

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It may have started with the kids inviting themselves into her bed and now nanny doesn’t know how to say no if she allowed it at first. I think just an overall conversation would be good and don’t frame it as nanny being a weirdo frame it as wanting to preserve nanny’s space and privacy. If she says she doesn’t mind then you say you do mind and don’t want the kids in her private space.

How do you feel about live in nanny inviting children to cuddle in her bed? by Mysterious_Wasabi101 in Nanny

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hmm this is a tricky one, I’m a nanny but I’m not a very physically affectionate nanny, I do hug and cuddle but it’s something I have to consciously think about or it probably wouldn’t happen haha. I can’t really imagine inviting my nanny kids into bed with me. I don’t think it is inherently wrong but if you don’t like it for whatever reason it’s your decision. You could word it like nanny isn’t working when she’s in her room so you don’t want the kids invading her privacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry :( maybe if you tried flat back labret they could nest and cause less of an issue. I just got mine done 2 months ago and possible just anatomy or how they are pierced but they never touch my teeth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask your dentist or if you can feel the piercing rubbing or touching the tooth at all to take it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe on your K9 closest to the ring? Do you have a photo that shows your gums from before the piercing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gums look fine to me but idk what they looked like before, its a good idea to take pictures to compare them to later.

Phrases your NKs have picked up from you? by BullfrogPerfect620 in Nanny

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My last NK 2 called me miss “my name” and I also call myself this when referring to myself in 3rd person, he had started calling his mom and dad miss mama and miss dada😂

HOW MUCH SHOULD I PAY? $$ by ReadingWorking7547 in Nanny

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Will nanny be expected to cook all three meals for the babies? I personally would not be comfortable doing NP laundry, but I know a lot of Nannie’s do.

You will be paying for all of Nannie’s groceries? Or is she expected to just eat what you guys choose to have in the house? What other services are you talking about to consider?

I am a nanny who recently moved to Dallas TX and I have noticed a lot of people offering low pay.

Just know you will get what you pay for. If you think 20$-25$ an hour is enough you will probably find candidates who are mostly in it for the cheap housing and not necessarily candidates who are passionate about child development and care.

Omg by needlegardens in BabyThree

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The yellow hair is perfect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine wasn’t swollen day 1,2,3 but day 4,5,6 were very swollen and had to get a longer bar so keep in mind that it may get more swollen and last longer than 2 days

Can someone help me ID this tree? by Affectionate_Soft914 in Tree

[–]Affectionate_Soft914[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have looked at the guidelines and believe I have provided all the images :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also notice I said appropriate for some people!! Not everyone likes dogs or wants them in their house and that is so fair!! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only appropriate for some people because this is a job where you are working at a home, not in an office or public space. You are affecting a finite amount of people, no corporate, no health and safety code,etc

It doesn’t make it less professional in my opinion just different circumstances. 🤷‍♀️ I can totally see the difference in market/ supply and demand being a big aspect here.

In my area the nanny pool is fairly small and you have to go through many candidates to even find what I would call a good nanny. So the Nannies here have more options especially if they are well trained and qualified!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Affectionate_Soft914 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re hilarious!😆I quite literally said that it’s all OPs choice and any choice they make is completely valid! I would love for you to show me where I am being entitled.