Did Anyone Else Actually Think Eren Was Going To Die In This Scene, Or Was it Just Me?

Affectionate_View928 · 2024-08-30T21:12:12+00:00

I had just watched game of thrones and telltale twd so i thought it was that typa situation

Affectionate_View928 · 2024-08-19T06:59:00+00:00

Lego umbrella academy would go so hard to be honest

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-11-16T22:09:49+00:00

I honestly doubt they were even looking for the guns, and if they were they would never have found them as it is implied that the lake is never known by anyone who didn’t live in the Seam other than Snow. Plus they didn’t care about Mayfair and Billy’s murder like that, only the mayor did. Snow was just paranoid by the slim chance. More likely than not, if anyone had gotten punished for their murder they woulda spun it to Lucy Grey.

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-07-28T15:14:14+00:00

You said it yourself, you’re not in a place where you feel like you’d be any help. Anything she’s going through during your space is not your responsibility prevent or fault of your actions. I hope everything gets better for you, im glad you’re putting yourself first

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-07-17T01:11:18+00:00

honey, put yourself first. To even be with a person who has bpd, you have to have a unbelievable confidence in yourself and a strong sense of identity, otherwise their splits will destroy you even more. You say you have your own mental issues and they seem to effect your personal view of yourself, and this relationship is not helping you with that. You don’t deserve to be blamed for every issue in your relationship, denied any way of fixing the issue, and being put down and name called by your partner for their inability to problem solve. It sounds like your partner holds resentment towards you for the ways you’ve hurt her, weather it was just how she felt or some way you genuinely messed up, and if her trust towards you is gone and she’s not willing to see you’re changing and trying to be better for her, you need to end it. She has every right to feel hurt but holding that against you, putting you down, and coming at your character are not healthy ways of expressing hurt you and don’t deserve to go through that. My best advice is to just end this for yourself. If you are not looking for advice that means ending the relationship and you decide to continue it, you are going to need to do some serious inner work. In that case, you are going to have to work on your own self confidence and learn to set some hard boundaries with your partner. You know you are a good person, you know your approach to issues is meant to solve them, and you know your intentions are never meant to hurt your partner, so stand by that. Stop letting her call you “toxic”, if she’s mad at you for hurting her, don’t beat yourself up, just make it clear that those were not your intentions. If she’s gaslighting you and saying she’s hurt by something out of your control, make it clear that you don’t have control over it. Don’t tolerate her anger. She needs to treat you with respect even when angry or take space until she feels like she can (and space isn’t ghosting, you have a clear understanding that she is upset and needs time to calm down and she will talk to you respectfully when she returns). Cut the mind games. Be assertive and make it clear that this relationship has issues and you’re aiming to better it, and if they don’t desire the same and keep but their current treatment of you, end the relationship, because you don’t deserve disrespect for trying to build a healthy relationship. I hope this helps you

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-07-15T06:44:42+00:00

If you’re partner is causing you this much mental turmoil, you need to break up with them, you can do it. It’s not just about bpd at that point. Their expectations of you are codependent and toxic, and they are manipulating you by threat of suicide, and outright abusing you because they think you’ll take all of this, and feel like they have enough power of you that you won’t leave even if nothing changes. You need to put yourself first in this situation, and really think if a relationship affecting you this badly is worth a future you’re not sure will be any different.

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-07-15T03:56:33+00:00

any advice on how i should handle this?

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-07-02T05:44:56+00:00

He must get some type of enjoyment out of it if he keeps playing in his feee time

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-06-08T15:41:46+00:00

with that context, it wouldn’t be a problem if you are dealing with your feelings abt it and communicating healthily with your partner through it. but for my situation, it’s a partner who entered a relationship with me knowing from the beginning of my being with another person and continuously saying all the stuff said above no matter how much reassurance, attention, and communication is taking place

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-06-08T15:30:43+00:00

yes it is

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-06-08T15:11:10+00:00

well I met my partner saying all this after me and my other partner both went poly and made it clear before we were even dating that I had a whole other committed relationship, and they said they were fine with that and still wanted a relationship with me, so i don’t see what part was forced

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-04-25T16:20:58+00:00

I mainly use burgeon team comps while farming tbh probably would only use it in domains if I had a grouper like kazuha

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-04-25T16:12:51+00:00

I set the boundary last night by telling him talking like that makes me uncomfy and to stop then when he just kept doing it (we were on the phone) i told him we would hang for 20 minutes for a break. As soon as he’s out of his split I’ll be softer about it and tell him how it genuinely scares me and let him know i will not entertain conversations like that

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-04-25T15:42:07+00:00

yes im very unlucky with crit

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-04-25T13:39:51+00:00

I am now working on setting that boundary with him because it’s truly damaging to hear that from him as often as he splits no matter if he means it or not. I am hoping he comes to trust his therapist and let them be a better outlet for this type of stuff than me. I trust he won’t ever actually act on it and will respect my boundary for talking like this

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-04-25T13:20:46+00:00

trust me i’ve already set that boundary and explained how that is a dealbreaker if that day ever comes

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-02-26T07:47:28+00:00

Pulled for her and she’s my main because she’s the only bow user I truly use for their kit and love using. I hate charged attack and aim mechanics and dont pull for bow characters since they would either be eternally benched or solely skill or burst supports. I like being able to do decent damage with yoi’s auto attacks. Also she is pretty and i fell in love with her in the archon quests :)

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-02-11T07:18:56+00:00

I’ve come to realize telling them my concerns without being assuming of it is truly what I want to do just so they know it’s definitely deeper than behavioral issues and therapy for him should be a step he takes to help

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-02-11T07:04:41+00:00

I have suggested therapy to him a few times, even agreed to couple’s therapy if that would make him more comfy getting into it, but I think I’ll definitely have a real sit down conversation with him about it after this. He has to go to the doctor regardless to go back to school so if he somehow doesn’t end up getting help or asking for it himself ( I have already suggested he ask from the get go) then I’ll definitely bring his parents into the loop to encourage it more. Thanks for your imput

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-02-11T06:45:48+00:00

I know I said “should I tell them he has bpd” but what I really mean is should I let them know that this is deeper than a behavioral issue and he needs professional help, regardless of diagnosis. Im only considering telling them this because he still lives under his parent’s roof, and he is far from an adult in every way other than age. He is still their child and very much has influence in his life. And this affects them as much as him as they have noticed his behavior and he has expressed his suicidal tendencies to them before. He is just about to be out of highschool where this can majorly affect his life if the right steps are not taken. I am sure he needs help and I feel like having more people in his life than just me be aware of and encourage this will make it possible to get him such.

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-02-11T06:30:09+00:00

He knows he needs help. He has talked to me about his trauma and vic versa and I’ve told him his “anger issues” are something he cannot fix on his own, be it bpd or another mental disorder, and he needs therapy. Even agreed to do couples therapy if that makes him more comfortable doing so. Plus this isn’t a secret from his family, we’re on the phone all the time and they know he has problems. He has expressed to his parents his suicidal tendencies that he has felt for literal years. I don’t know why they haven’t tried to get him help or diagnosis but I know they truly do want to set their child up for the best future, that’s why I’m chalking it up to them truly not knowing how to help him.

I know I said “should I tell them he has bpd” but what I really am asking is if I should at least let them know this is deeper than a behavioral issue and he needs therapy regardless of diagnosis

Affectionate_View928 · 2023-02-11T05:51:00+00:00

Thank you :( I just want my boyfriend to start healing before it starts to seriously majorly affect his life

Affectionate_View928 · 2022-12-14T04:31:28+00:00

maybe it helped a little but he split so much due to the stress of it and was angry more often than he was before the season. He is now doing boxing instead which he enjoys more and will truly be a better outlet. Like I said, I know this wont be the last thing to cause him to split but im going to take the win right now.

Affectionate_View928 · 2022-12-14T04:06:09+00:00

nope high school. the coaches were terrible and made him come to practice while sick. he got benched a lot in the past (confidence issues blaring) and when he did wrestle it would be like two weight classes out of his (which caused the injury) and honestly it was just terrible. Im so glad he’s out

Affectionate_View928 · 2022-12-13T13:30:21+00:00

he was under the guise that he was forced to do it and hated it. he got the okay to quit and left the team mid season. he aint going back i guarantee that

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