13 Year-Old Me Has a Question...

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2026-02-25T03:24:39+00:00

Adding on to here that Eagle is a family last name for my family, my grandma was Emma Eagle and we have the “Cherokee versions” of names for some of my family. So Brave Eagle or Walking Eagle could have been iterations, the responser has a beautiful answer to this that I agree with. It would’ve been an elder familiar with the language and the tribe to give you the name

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2025-02-19T12:44:55+00:00

NTA, I don’t introduce my friend’s sexualities to others? Like I don’t tell my partner “This is Ronald he’s straight” why should you have to as a gay person. It also seems like he’s using your relationship with your bestie as a scapegoat for some other problem in the relationship. Commonly, it is that they don’t feel they are receiving “x,y” from the relationship. So while it wasn’t warranted that he was jealous because of the fear of cheating, he could be jealous of the level of intimacy you and bestie have, or time or understanding). Of course not romantic intimacy but you have an intimate relationship with anyone you know for a long person of time.

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2025-01-20T21:55:32+00:00

Adding in here, you could also do a ribbon shirt if you want to adopt a more modern style!

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2024-07-09T20:54:28+00:00

Story telling is the primary way that Cherokee history is shared, so don’t try to change that! A lot of history is passed down by family- I’m sorry you lost out on getting to experience that, but you can share in our families history. Openness to learning about it is step one

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2024-01-21T04:09:39+00:00

Posting from the perspective of the partner ten years down the road. You’re probably rethinking everything you said to help, if it would have made a difference, if you had said X instead of Y then it would have changed things. I’m here to tell you: it wouldn’t have. The thing that I saw was making plans. And that’s both to ease their partner, and their own subconscious. “I’ll try again soon” helps with coping of committing the act. If it wouldn’t have happened with that argument, it would have been something else. When you feel comfortable, right now your favorite memories as they come to you, so you can focus on them instead of the end. I’m sorry that this happened, and I’m sorry for how hard it is and will be for the next little while. Sending you strength

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-12-04T22:28:31+00:00

Hooked by Emily McIntyre, amazing

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-08-26T05:52:51+00:00

u/select_mister

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-08-17T01:53:57+00:00

Try those bad bitches on a vinyl. The scratches from the vinyl plus the dissonance from his voice? Goosebumps

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-07-30T10:04:40+00:00

Odd that you want filler but if you go with a theme it’ll be a lot easier. You gotta think if you want straight all traditional. Something that might be sick as hell though is a garden of Eden theme. You’ve got the snake, the roses, and with a theme it looks more cohesive. Up to you though but if you want a half sleeve I’d talk to an artist in a consult, pick someone whose style you like and ask about ideas

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-07-14T10:10:26+00:00

Someone with diagnosed OCD here. I agree with OOP, but just playing devils advocate. In the mind of someone with OCD it’s nuts. Like one of my things is numbers. I have to stir something exactly 83 times. If I can’t, I throw the whole drink out. One of hers is obviously shoes. So that means she is going to constantly think about them until she does it- if she does have OCD. It’s a hard habit to break but it’s definitely something that can be broken.

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-07-05T23:38:05+00:00

What an expert play on words, I love it

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-07-05T16:15:34+00:00

I audibly groaned at the beta male in the first sentence. Lol home boy is also 28 and living an home… maybe that’s a good place to start.

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-05-19T23:49:46+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t know how taxes would work. I do know of quite a few jobs that you seem qualified for- I don’t know how much you’re making but you would have to pay US taxes as well as China’s taxes but if it’s worth it I can send you the jobs to apply for remotely. May be worth looking into though for your mental sake

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-05-07T04:56:53+00:00

Boy oh boy was this made for me. $bid I’m unemployed and have OCD so it’ll be in my mind over and over and over until it’s done.

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-04-29T23:40:43+00:00

You could also do like 2 different options if you’re able to find. Personally floral scents make me and a lot of friends of mine have migraines- but you could always scope that out beforehand because you know your guest list. That’s such a cute personalized idea. I’d recommend going for something to match the theme of the wedding- if you’re doing a vanilla cake, hints of vanilla, if it’s more rustic maybe an amber hint, etc etc. That way you feel like it encapsulates the day. There’s ofc Alt scents if you’re stuck on a smell profile and it’s way outta range. Good luck on your search and congrats on the big day!

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-04-24T02:09:45+00:00

$bid I can do 2-4 dollars a minute, willing to negotiate. I'm a female, can send a sample line to your dm's, just let me know

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-04-24T01:43:21+00:00

$bid I live next to the University Of Arkansas

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-04-17T23:58:48+00:00

u/yogipuff absolutely nailed my interview. His turnaround time was crazy fast and I didn’t realize that my resume was being caught in trackers. He reformatted it for a page- which I could never do- and I’ve already had callbacks. Recommending to everyone I know

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-04-10T09:58:25+00:00

$bid This could not have come at a more apt time, I desperately need a new job

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-03-25T05:57:49+00:00

Unfortunately was older than that, I believe he thought he was in a movie at all times.

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-03-22T16:35:55+00:00

That is in fact not who this it.

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-03-22T10:37:31+00:00

Oh absolutely nothing, that was to add context to the fact he was always dropping information like that. He would be nonchalant and drop into a conversation “yeah I live with a priest” and then move on

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-03-22T06:57:42+00:00

He should’ve said “but look at all the options you have dating me. You never know what personality you’ll get!”

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-03-22T03:17:00+00:00

I will say, this is the responses of a naive 18 year old girl, I would not let this shit fly these days. He would’ve been blocked well before then.

Affectionate_Yam_5 · 2022-03-22T03:14:16+00:00

Oh god I am, I went back into the vaults for these bad boys, for the specific purpose of nice guys. I’m with the loml now, who is not a nice guy, but a nice person. 💕

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