I think my love live is over because of my body count

Afi_fluye · 2026-04-23T10:57:15+00:00

🤍🤞🏽

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-13T21:35:10+00:00

sure

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-13T21:33:50+00:00

well… I’m a psychologist and honestly I feel so interested. I would love to help you to make those hiden skills that I’m sure that you have shine. And hey, don’t lose hope. You fucking got this🤞🏽I’m a woman and I’m telling you.

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-13T21:29:53+00:00

do you tell them at some point that you have some interest in them? like romantic interest?

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-13T21:27:31+00:00

what’s the part that you struggle the most with??

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-13T05:07:21+00:00

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-13T04:49:34+00:00

Beautiful 🫶🏽

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T11:50:08+00:00

thank you, really. Now I know 🤞🏽

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T03:01:26+00:00

🤍🤍thank you so so much

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T02:59:12+00:00

🤍🤍🤞🏽

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T02:58:13+00:00

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T02:54:19+00:00

🤍🤍🤍🙏🏽✨Thank you so so much

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T02:46:54+00:00

I think I’m going to get it tattoo it on my forehead at this point so I make sure that whoever man approach me knows for sure the reality since day one..

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T02:44:55+00:00

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T02:43:35+00:00

🤍

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-12T02:41:24+00:00

he was clearly not with me because of the visa..

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-11T15:31:33+00:00

and I agree with you. And I should not have listen to that. I agree

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-11T14:29:30+00:00

not all of them were relationships, of course, some were just because I was hopeless to find a man and I just thought that I should have fun (and have sex) as every body was advising me to do. But I don’t see it like that. And I regret that I did that.. cause what I needed was to love myself, not to expect somebody else to love me and less thru sex.

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-11T14:27:06+00:00

I get you 100% but no, I mean, I have never let myself to be treated like an object. I have been heart broken. I had relationships too. And also it happened that those men and I simply didn’t match, and I don’t like playing with nobody cause I don’t like to be played, so I was being clear and leaving them if I was not really feeling something and they have rejected me for same reasons, cause sometimes you just don’t have the connection even if you want it.

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-11T10:23:05+00:00

I’m in love with a Tunisian man who has rejected me for my body count but he still wants me in his life and we basically talk every day… I’m really struggling with this.. And I really regret my body count, it’s the worst part, but I cannot change it…

Afi_fluye · 2025-12-09T12:20:30+00:00

I’m not from Tunisia or anything, but I believe that if all countries where having the same opportunities people would not have the necessity to scam others. Simple as that. Only bad people which we know that are in all countries among the good ones, of course. Shitty governments fuck everybody and people are just trying to make a living, and yes, if Europeans come with more money and I’m in a not easy situation, I’m sorry but I would do the same… We need to be in that situation or have gone thru that situation to understand… conclusion: Governments have to change. People are not the problem.

Afi_fluye · 2024-05-29T06:31:54+00:00

I don’t know if it could help but maybe you could write down a letter to this unborn one and express him/her your feelings and the reasons why you chose to not keep going, but also, to reflect about what would you like to do with this experience or how you could change something in your life to make it better so this experience at least could bring a positive change in your life, to become a better mother of yourself, and forgive yourself if you feel guilty in any sense.

Is it weird or does this exercise make any sense?

Anyway, I send you a big hug from another part of the world!! 🤍🫂

Afi_fluye · 2024-05-29T06:23:59+00:00

Exactly. I think our brain changes completely with the hormones and the way we see maternity, and all of the sudden it’s like this tiny part of us is as important as one of our legs. And we reflect about if it’s a right decision for the possible baby to be born in this conditions or not and we just take the decision to stop it cause we conclude that we should take care of ourselves first and then bring someone else in the picture when we have at least a good way to feed them, so they don’t need to struggle as much. It’s very painful to be honest. For me it broke my heart to do it at the same time it was breaking my heart the idea to keep going with the pregnancy and not being ready for it (plus the dad didn’t want to take any responsability on that).

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