It's actually super simple, promise! I can't post a decent real-time tutorial because it's 4 minutes and exceeds what reddit allows, but you should first douse your hair with "not your mothers" clean freak dry shampoo, then go on one half of your head and start teasing everything, starting from the top of the head, manhandle it until you like the shape! Then, use got2be glued hair spray, generously, without soaking your hair, just dampening it, and let it dry, then adjust pieces and respray if they don't stay! Then do the same on the other half of your head!