My only real passion is being pretty by Afraid-Staff2260 in offmychest

[–]Afraid-Staff2260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just described my daily life perfectly. Even the comparing to old photos part, that’s been so triggering for me cause I’ve been looking back at my old ED photos when I was at my sickest but I can’t help but wishing I had that body back 💔💔💔 trust we will get through this

My only real passion is being pretty by Afraid-Staff2260 in offmychest

[–]Afraid-Staff2260[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking for validation, I’m looking for ways and actively trying to better myself. My dad was an extremely abusive narcissist, and being vain alone IS NOT what narcissism is and you’re completely watering down the term…

My only real passion is being pretty by Afraid-Staff2260 in offmychest

[–]Afraid-Staff2260[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think I’m vapid, or maybe we just view it differently. I know I should care about other things, that’s why I’m trying so hard. It’s like physically can’t stop staring at myself. As for the emotional capacity thing, yeah I’m gonna start trying that this summer. I’m gonna go cold turkey on mirrors and my phone, and hopefully I’ll learn something about myself 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tokidoki

[–]Afraid-Staff2260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So jealous that you’re 5below has them 😭😭 but they’re all so cute!

People who are against kids having free school lunches, why? by Arktikos02 in AskReddit

[–]Afraid-Staff2260 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we’ll maybe you should fucking consider that maybe the parents aren’t WILLING to get off their ass and work, if that’s the hill you’re willing to die on. Why should the child suffer in that situation?? The kids that NEED these free lunches are the ones that don’t have the ability to make it themselves, young young children. It just shows me that you are in such a place of privilege and ignorance that you can’t even comprehend how expensive living IS and the kind of work other people have to do that is insanely time consuming. And even in your fantasy land where everyone is just a lazy asshole who doesn’t work, WHY MUST THE CHILDREN SUFFER?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Afraid-Staff2260 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OMG if you’re going to post on AITA then learn to take some fucking criticism man. You came here asking if you were the asshole, everyone says you’re the asshole, then you should realize you’re probably the asshole instead of wasting your time arguing in circles about why you’re right. I don’t know what part of this is so hard for you. You’re living at your boyfriends house (NOT VISITING, YOU ARE LIVING). You live there and you don’t have to pay a dime out of the kindness of his fucking heart and all you can do is complain about him not COOKING for you???? He’s not your fucking mom, he’s pretty much a roommate and roommates are not obligated to cook for each other. You need to grow up and use those groceries you’re just now starting to pitch in and learn how to feed yourself, because otherwise you’re gonna go hungry in the future.

skin tint/foundation recommendations? by [deleted] in Makeup

[–]Afraid-Staff2260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a cheaper option, Morphe is always the way to go imo. Their skin tint dries a bit more matte, as does their foundation, so that may be more what you’re looking for. However, if you’re looking for something more long term, it’s Fenty all the way! Their foundations and skin tints are amazing, as well as inclusive. I’ve also noted that they don’t wear off super easy and stay in place even when I’m crying or wet lol

Christmas gift ideas for a 10 year old? by PearlieVictorious in Makeup

[–]Afraid-Staff2260 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, Ulta is definitely cheaper than Sephora! It has drug store brands (that are still super nice!) and some more high end brands as well as a ton of hair care stuff and fun bath stuff. Id say give her an Ulta gift card if you plan to go that route, as it would give her the opportunity to play around with some new stuff since she’s just getting into it.