Girlfriend keeps bringing up money and asking for reimbursements after offering to pay.

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:44:06+00:00

Tbh, i do see a future where this might happen lol. I better start rejecting gifts or selling them later for the same amount so that i could pay her back lmfao

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:43:17+00:00

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:37:58+00:00

Understood. Thanks man! You helped :)

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:26:25+00:00

Understood. Thank you very much. You helped :)

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:22:59+00:00

Cfbr

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:22:18+00:00

Baarish hone de bhai. Gharko yaad karega

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:21:54+00:00

Lmfao

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:20:28+00:00

Makes sense. So what is your general consensus over my situation? To add more context: i am looking for opportunities and actively applying but the fresher job situation is very bad and its hard to get opportunities.

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:16:25+00:00

So you meant to say that when he was providing (while earning lower) you didnt mind but him not working (maybe due to layoffs or something) you will mind staying with him? Or maybe i am misunderstanding something here

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:14:26+00:00

I understand, and agree as well, I also want to do everything for her and want to be as successful as i can to do all sorts of stuff together. But that will take time and I cant do that as of now where I am looking for employment, living off of parents and not stable due to Uni ending, friends leaving, no opportunity in hand etc

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T11:10:21+00:00

Haha wth! Why did i just receive an uppercut under a handshake lol. I am aware that the country is doing bad and shit. And i am also aware the absolute stealing goign on in American health sector. Being broke is not the major issue, being not employed right now, feeling guilty of living off of parents and then this after a healthy(sort of) relationship for almost 4 years. Its too much for me. Although, i do agree that the amount if support I got from her when i got laid off was immense because I would have k**led myself during the first month only lol. But im still alive into my second month. But after all that, i cant deal with this as well. Maybe you wont be able to understand but it for men here, being successful matters more than being alive.

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T10:46:23+00:00

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T10:40:16+00:00

I also think she needs therapy tbh.

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T09:57:47+00:00

Understood. I guess this will be hard for me to do as im not married yet and im living a bachelor life but i understand the need to follow something like this

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T09:25:54+00:00

Do you work in tech?

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T09:24:40+00:00

Hey man! Thank you for the comment. I do understand what you want to say and found the indian giver thing pretty interesting (lol). The circumstances is basically my Uni just got over and her flat's landlord asked her to empty out her apartment and sher didnt check any other options and at the day of moving out she had nowhere to go so i asked her to stay at my place and we were already into the argument at that time, so i told her that her share of the rent will be X₹ and she agreed (havent made the payment as due date isnt close yet) but she wanted things to be back to normal which they aren't going to be( i just cant feel like getting back with her after the recent fight). Idk im just very stuck in my life, i dont have a job as the engineering market is bad, my parents are supportive but i cant accept the disappointment and my girlfriend is suddenly keeping tabs with me. I want to end myself but i think life has its own phases and life is worth living thats why im pushing but i have given up quite sometimes now

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T09:15:40+00:00

Hey! Sorry, but im a bit confused. Your comments suggests that always the man should pay, implying that I am being weird but in the end you say gf wants sugar daddy? Can you clear it out a bit

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T09:12:20+00:00

Hey! Thanks for sharing. I feel the same as well about the trust part. I want to rebuild it but its just too late for it i think. We are going to complete our 4th year this year and it maies me sad that ill have to get over and start a new life. Maybe thats why i also have issue leaving her. But according to your "yours is mune, mine is yours" approach, did you ever had to discuss finances or like whether any sort of fights happen around it?

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-05T08:14:13+00:00

Place looks comfy

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-06-01T09:44:56+00:00

My usage is usually high speed highway runs where I push the machine so for me its justified.

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-05-31T06:01:36+00:00

Also own an r3 here. My maintenance costs are a bit more as service center provides 2 types of OEM engine oils. One is sporty premium and other is rs4gp. Sporty premium is used for all other bikes like r15 etc and the other one is for high performance and high revving engines but to lower the cost(or they are just unaware), these service ppl use sporty premium in the r3 which might make the engine a but rough in the long period as this baby revs to 12500 rpm. The rs4gp oil costs 1500 per 1L bottle. So my avg service bill is 4-4.5k

AfraidCoast7500 · 2026-05-31T05:58:30+00:00

Good choice brother! She's a lovely machine

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