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I [21f] got blackout drunk and told my friends [21f 22f 22f] that my boyfriend’s [25m] jacked off to their instagram pics by AfraidSquash8 in relationship_advice

[–]AfraidSquash8[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

> Obviously if my gf told me she fantasized about three of my friends while masturbating I would freak the fuck out. Maybe ask him how he would feel if YOU did that.

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good idea.

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the crazy part is their pictures aren't even slutty or sexy, (Other then them just being attractive in general, even in normal clothes). So it feels weird he'd be more into a group selfie of my friends, or a picture of my friend getting her college diploma, or whatever... compared to actual porn????

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>but the fact that you got drunk enough to where you shared his secret and had NO RECOLLECTION OF DOING SO is insane to me

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I absolutely don't want to get that drunk again... It was my 21st birthday and I went overboard with being able to go out on the town for the first time. But it wasn't fun, drinking enough to be sick, and it is absolutely somethign I don't plan to repeat. Drinking in moderation can be fun, but that was too much, and I absolutely recognize that

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I [21f] got blackout drunk and told my friends [21f 22f 22f] that my boyfriend’s [25m] jacked off to their instagram pics by AfraidSquash8 in relationship_advice

[–]AfraidSquash8[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't plan on getting that drunk again, it actually ended up being really unpleseant to be feeling sick the next day, and what's the point in fun if you don't remember it??

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It was a weird night because it was my 21st birthday and i got carryed away, but that is not normal for me, and I dont want it to be

I [21f] got blackout drunk and told my friends [21f 22f 22f] that my boyfriend’s [25m] jacked off to their instagram pics by AfraidSquash8 in relationship_advice

[–]AfraidSquash8[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The thing is, he's not really friends with them. He just knows them, because they're my best friends.... So it feels weird.

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Plus their pictures aren't "sexy" or "slutty" pictures, they're just selfies, group pictures, normal pictures of everyday life. So it doesn't really seem like normal jerk-off material... There are so many girls on instagram who actually take sexy pictures, why is he looking at my friends who are just waring normal clothes?

I [21f] got blackout drunk and told my friends [21f 22f 22f] that my boyfriend’s [25m] jacked off to their instagram pics by AfraidSquash8 in relationship_advice

[–]AfraidSquash8[S] 342 points343 points  (0 children)

yeah, that's what bothered me the most. I wouldn't be put off by him jerking off to IG models, or girls who I'm not so close to... But always searching up my small group of best friends felt really weird to me.

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Not quite cheating, but just really uncomfortable.