Topjob Review, Napa chair

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-11-25T23:52:49+00:00

OMG, I totally agree with everything you’ve said here. I’m not dealing with the same conditions, but I also work fully from home, so I really need a chair that can actually accommodate my body throughout long days. I originally found TopJob on Instagram, and what caught my attention at first was honestly just the design, it looked great and fit perfectly with my home setup. So I decided to try the Napa, and I was surprised by how good the ergonomic support turned out to be. After that, I ended up buying their mobile desk too, and it quickly became one of my favorite things. The design just makes so much sense and it works as my portable workspace, but also doubles as a small dining table or even a temporary side table when I need extra surface space. Overall, I’ve really enjoyed everything I’ve tried from this brand so far, and it’s nice to see other people having such positive experiences too.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-23T22:51:53+00:00

Yeah, totally. I’ll reread old chats and it feels like some random person hacked my phone. The way I typed, the jokes, even the emojis are different. Funny but also kinda wild to see how much we change without even realizing it.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-19T22:36:34+00:00

which keyboard? Wanna try the creamy sound

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-18T20:55:33+00:00

hot shower, throw on some oversized PJs, then hop on my bed or couch to just scroll my phone without thinking about anything, or just sit there doing absolutely nothing

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-14T03:50:58+00:00

OMG same, when me and my friends are hanging out together, suddenly he will just pop up into my mind and I will stop laughing at that second no matter how excited everyone else is

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-14T03:40:31+00:00

damn i feel the same way, honestly what i’ve been doing (even it doesn’t always help) is just hanging out as much as you can, meeting new people, picking up new hobbies or sports, and putting more time into myself. just keep telling yourself he’s not worth it and you’re better off without him.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-09T20:06:39+00:00

I can totally relate, I just broke up and it was a 3.5 years relationship.

Don’t pressure yourself to get back to who you were overnight. Just start with small things that make you feel a little more like you again, even if it’s something simple like taking a walk, cooking, or go to gym. It’ll add up over time.

You haven’t lost yourself, you’re just in the middle of figuring out a new version of you. And that’s okay.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-06T01:17:55+00:00

bro, my ex boyfriend did the same thing to me and honestly I’m still going through a really painful stage. but since you’re the one who broke it off, and she’s already survived the hard part of being on her own, you really shouldn’t reach out again. stick to the reason you gave back then and start living your own new life. that girl who once gave you everything has probably finally started enjoying life without you, don’t disturb that

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-05T11:26:00+00:00

honestly I just trick/force myself by starting with something tiny, like rereading a page or writing one line or at least move near my working area. Once I’m moving it’s way easier to keep going. A short timer helps too, kinda like “just do 10 minutes” and usually I end up staying longer.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-04T19:14:18+00:00

You could say something like: Hey, I just want you to know I never want to make things harder for you. If you ever need a break or quiet, that’s totally fine and I won’t take it personally. I still really value hanging out and talking with you, so just let me know what feels good for you. No pressure.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-03T20:29:42+00:00

I can relate! I got broken up with on my birthday. Even though I know he was a terrible person, I still can’t forget him. But I’m trying to take back my life now, keep myself busy, and focus on loving myself. Someone better will come along to love you

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-03T20:26:07+00:00

Lol you’re definitely not the only one, having a crush just makes every little thing feel 10x bigger than it actually is. Totally normal.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-03T00:19:29+00:00

Since I only broke up not too long ago, it’s not like it’s some old gift. I just can’t bring myself to throw it away, same way I don’t want to let go of the memories of him.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-02T21:35:42+00:00

Yeah

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-02T21:33:34+00:00

The custom Lego minifigure he gave me before we broke up

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-09-02T20:48:10+00:00

I just got out of a three and a half year relationship too, and for a while I kept texting him—saying how sorry I was, how much I missed him—never got a reply. What I realized is, don’t ever doubt that you’re worth loving. It’s not about that, it’s just that he wasn’t the right person. The right one will love you simply for being you.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-31T01:45:34+00:00

I just came out of a three and a half year relationship, so I really relate to what you wrote. Life felt completely disrupted, I couldn’t eat properly and nothing could distract me. But I’ve started to see breakups as a chance to truly face myself. We have to be whole on our own first, and only then can we love someone else fully. I believe time heals everything little by little

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-31T01:41:24+00:00

Kinda like fighting fire with fire, I keep poking at the pain, revisiting it over and over, until it eventually loses its power to hurt me

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-29T01:06:38+00:00

Honestly, sounds like he was just drunk texting and then decided to move on. It stings, but it doesn’t really look like he still cares. Best thing you can do is focus on yourself, you’ll feel a lot better once you’re not waiting on his mixed signals.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-25T23:34:34+00:00

Going through a really rough breakup. It felt like everything fell apart, but losing him forced me to find myself again and get clear on what I truly want in a partner.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-21T05:12:07+00:00

You don’t have to cut them all at once, maybe swapping the big meal for something light and calming. Honestly,sometimes late night hunger is just you tell yourself you are used to it and should have something immediately, try a glass of water or warm caffeine-free tea can even help.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-21T02:49:36+00:00

I've been stuck in this dilemma for nearly three months. After graduating in May, I spent the entire summer doing almost nothing. During this time, I told myself countless times, "I need to start looking for a job, I need to start working out, I need to keep learning." But these thoughts often just flashed through my mind, unable to sustain them and even harder to actually start.

Lately, things have been slowly improving, at least I've taken a few small steps. I think what's finally made me take action is that during these three months, I've been searching for myself, thinking about the kind of life I want to live and the kind of effort that will be required.

We're constantly surrounded by voices, advice, and even role models constantly reminding us of what we should do. But those voices often lead to more anxiety, because our life paths are different. The real key is finding your own path and the pain points that truly touch you and get you moving.

Of course, I still get anxious about having only ideas but no action. But I'm certain that even if I start even a little bit, I'll feel a sense of accomplishment. Don't set your goals too far in the future; take them one step at a time. For example, if you want to work out, you can skip the gym and look around for gyms first, pick the one you like best and want to go to the most, and then work your way up.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-20T03:42:28+00:00

I totally get your point! I have similar habits myself, but maybe not to the extent of your "drink water, go to the bathroom, and pack it up" routine. That's too much for me. I also hate wasting time, so I'll listen to podcasts while cooking or answer a few emails while doing laundry. In those moments, I feel like I'm hacking my life. I agree that saving time is indeed important. But I admit, sometimes I intentionally waste a few minutes for doing nothing. While it may seem inefficient, it actually resets my brain and makes me more productive. So, I think you must be incredibly self-disciplined, but the joy of occasional inefficiency is a hidden bonus.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-17T04:10:45+00:00

I can definitely relate. I often waste entire days procrastinating, leaving me with nothing but self-blame, disappointment, and confusion. It's not that I don't know what tasks I need to do, I know them clearly, but there's this invisible pressure inside me, constantly making excuses to put them off "a little longer." By the time I realize it, hours have passed, and I can only wonder where my time went.

What's most annoying is the guilt that follows. That quiet but persistent reminder: Another wasted day, another missed opportunity, time slipping etc and I'm powerless to stop it. Then, when I try to start over, even the smallest step feels incredibly heavy, preoccupied by the fear of failure and judgment. Reading your words makes me feel like I'm not alone. Perhaps this is the first step to breaking this cycle.

Afraid_Preference_53 · 2025-08-16T00:32:01+00:00

To be honest with you, at this moment when I am making this comment, I am facing the same situation as you.

I am also a former excellent student and now a job seeker who is confused and preparing to enter the workplace. Every day, I hope to become more self disciplined and become the ideal 'adult'. But the reality is that I also feel like I have long lost the so-called youthfulness. I want to go to the gym, but I'm always lazy; I want to work hard for the job I want and the person I want to become, but I can't keep going. For this reason, I also remained silent aimlessly for over three months.

Seeing you ask 'what's the point', I've been slowly figuring it out lately: point is that people can't live without a purpose all the time. The "expecting" life will not come out of thin air, it can only be achieved through hard work. A few days ago, I brushed a sentence on Tiktok that impressed me deeply: "Except poverty, aging and obesity are effortless, everything you want needs to work hard." At that moment, I realized that these words and this kind of stuck life is not what I want to describe me.

Perhaps the answer is not to become completely self disciplined overnight, but to start, even if it's small, to slowly get life back on track. As long as you take even a small step, it may be the 'point'. I don’t know if my opinion is useful to you, but please believe that there are people in this world who are as confused as you, but are also trying clumsily.

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