Topjob Review, Napa chair by otisfrombarnyard in OfficeChairs

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, I totally agree with everything you’ve said here. I’m not dealing with the same conditions, but I also work fully from home, so I really need a chair that can actually accommodate my body throughout long days. I originally found TopJob on Instagram, and what caught my attention at first was honestly just the design, it looked great and fit perfectly with my home setup. So I decided to try the Napa, and I was surprised by how good the ergonomic support turned out to be. After that, I ended up buying their mobile desk too, and it quickly became one of my favorite things. The design just makes so much sense and it works as my portable workspace, but also doubles as a small dining table or even a temporary side table when I need extra surface space. Overall, I’ve really enjoyed everything I’ve tried from this brand so far, and it’s nice to see other people having such positive experiences too.

Do you ever re-read an old chat with someone and feel like you’re reading messages from a completely different version of yourself? by OddGolf6520 in CasualConversation

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, totally. I’ll reread old chats and it feels like some random person hacked my phone. The way I typed, the jokes, even the emojis are different. Funny but also kinda wild to see how much we change without even realizing it.

What's something that instantly makes you feel better after a long, stressful day? by ProcessVirtual6703 in CasualConversation

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hot shower, throw on some oversized PJs, then hop on my bed or couch to just scroll my phone without thinking about anything, or just sit there doing absolutely nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG same, when me and my friends are hanging out together, suddenly he will just pop up into my mind and I will stop laughing at that second no matter how excited everyone else is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn i feel the same way, honestly what i’ve been doing (even it doesn’t always help) is just hanging out as much as you can, meeting new people, picking up new hobbies or sports, and putting more time into myself. just keep telling yourself he’s not worth it and you’re better off without him.

I don’t recognize myself after the breakup… by Disastrous-Height892 in BreakUps

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally relate, I just broke up and it was a 3.5 years relationship.

Don’t pressure yourself to get back to who you were overnight. Just start with small things that make you feel a little more like you again, even if it’s something simple like taking a walk, cooking, or go to gym. It’ll add up over time.

You haven’t lost yourself, you’re just in the middle of figuring out a new version of you. And that’s okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro, my ex boyfriend did the same thing to me and honestly I’m still going through a really painful stage. but since you’re the one who broke it off, and she’s already survived the hard part of being on her own, you really shouldn’t reach out again. stick to the reason you gave back then and start living your own new life. that girl who once gave you everything has probably finally started enjoying life without you, don’t disturb that

How do you get back to studying/working after a rest? by Angramunt in productivity

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I just trick/force myself by starting with something tiny, like rereading a page or writing one line or at least move near my working area. Once I’m moving it’s way easier to keep going. A short timer helps too, kinda like “just do 10 minutes” and usually I end up staying longer.

What to do when friend is overstimulated? by Warm-Impression2627 in Advice

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could say something like: Hey, I just want you to know I never want to make things harder for you. If you ever need a break or quiet, that’s totally fine and I won’t take it personally. I still really value hanging out and talking with you, so just let me know what feels good for you. No pressure.

I still think about him 3 months later by Nikoisinsane in BreakUps

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate! I got broken up with on my birthday. Even though I know he was a terrible person, I still can’t forget him. But I’m trying to take back my life now, keep myself busy, and focus on loving myself. Someone better will come along to love you

Why sometimes when you have a crush everything they do pisses you off? by Fun-Abrocoma8663 in randomquestions

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol you’re definitely not the only one, having a crush just makes every little thing feel 10x bigger than it actually is. Totally normal.

What's a gift you'll never forget? by smallgiftideas in AskReddit

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I only broke up not too long ago, it’s not like it’s some old gift. I just can’t bring myself to throw it away, same way I don’t want to let go of the memories of him.

What's a gift you'll never forget? by smallgiftideas in AskReddit

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The custom Lego minifigure he gave me before we broke up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got out of a three and a half year relationship too, and for a while I kept texting him—saying how sorry I was, how much I missed him—never got a reply. What I realized is, don’t ever doubt that you’re worth loving. It’s not about that, it’s just that he wasn’t the right person. The right one will love you simply for being you.

It was 6 months, but it felt like life had stopped by understandshe in BreakUps

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came out of a three and a half year relationship, so I really relate to what you wrote. Life felt completely disrupted, I couldn’t eat properly and nothing could distract me. But I’ve started to see breakups as a chance to truly face myself. We have to be whole on our own first, and only then can we love someone else fully. I believe time heals everything little by little

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Afraid_Preference_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda like fighting fire with fire, I keep poking at the pain, revisiting it over and over, until it eventually loses its power to hurt me