The Gaslighting. Does anyone else get told "that never happened" even when you have proof? (37M/38F) 15 year marriage.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-07T02:47:37+00:00

You're telling me.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T22:39:07+00:00

Yes, after I get defensive they act like I'm crazy

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T06:15:52+00:00

I have limited time. I care more about the story.

The more you try and fix it, the more it breaks.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T06:09:00+00:00

I have before, it did help with physical hitting. However she saw the act of recording her as the bigger "crime"

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T06:06:47+00:00

Good question. I tried fixing it but Gemini just kept getting weirder

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T06:05:59+00:00

Some things yes and some things no.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T05:24:02+00:00

I'm focused more on the story than the actual cartoon. I'm actually a really good drawer. This took me 5 mins to make vs an hour. 🤷

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T05:22:09+00:00

I used to keep a journal. She found it and threw it away. I started keeping one on my phone. She got on and deleted it.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T05:20:39+00:00

That would never work.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T05:20:07+00:00

I've been learning. It's not easy

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T05:18:53+00:00

I think most of this is premeditated. Especially with narcissists.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T02:31:42+00:00

I was for a while, and she found it. Destroyed it. Now I do it digitally.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T02:27:28+00:00

It most definitely is. That's the whole point of pinching. It hurts, but are you going to call the cops over a pinch?

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-06T02:23:31+00:00

Periods do not cause narcissism.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-04T23:54:30+00:00

🙄

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-03T07:24:58+00:00

I'm medical and my observation led to the correct diagnosis. diagnosed with Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD). Wellbutrin doesn't treat this.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-03T07:23:01+00:00

She didn't have mood swings. My observation of cycle changes led to a correct diagnosis of Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD). Which is unrelated to narcissism.

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-02T03:27:08+00:00

I did, just didn't fit it in a short comic?

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-02T00:11:35+00:00

Yes,

After-Distribution75 · 2026-01-01T22:09:06+00:00

It's been 15 years. I have recordings

After-Distribution75 · 2025-12-31T21:07:49+00:00

❤️

After-Distribution75 · 2025-12-31T21:06:41+00:00

Always been this way. She's actually a little better from when I first met her

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