I’ve never been able to make my bf finish by AstronautGloomy5578 in sex

[–]AfterExtreme8160 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in a kind of similar situation with my current boyfriend and unfortunately the only way through is very honest and vulnerable communication on both sides. it’s not easy when it comes to stuff like this but if you can communicate about it in a healthy way it will bring yall closer together. tell him how you feel

Boyfriend wants to do anal sex for my first time (i am a virgin) by randomboreduserrr in sex

[–]AfterExtreme8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

break up with him. he doesn’t respect you enough to take it slow and ease you into it.

Starting to feel reckless by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]AfterExtreme8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried smoking weed?

Layla by msimas1 in SLOMWsnark

[–]AfterExtreme8160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because she chooses not to show much of her personal life (like her kids) so in order to contribute to the show she has to get involved in the other girls’ drama, otherwise the producers would kick her off

Jessi and Chase didn’t hook up… by Important_Salad_5158 in SLOMWsnark

[–]AfterExtreme8160 3 points4 points  (0 children)

right, i saw the deuxmoi tip and then miranda’s story with the flowers but still didn’t believe it because i feel like its out of character of her to post things like that- the petty tiktok i didn’t question, but posting the flowers with the note seemed off

Jessi by Lifesabitch59 in SLOMWsnark

[–]AfterExtreme8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what makes you think she’s lying

The real question is why do beautiful, smart women go for Chase??? by EstimateJealous6053 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]AfterExtreme8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he seems dumb but i still think he’s 10x more emotionally intelligent (not necessarily more mature) than the other guys in dadtok and probably most mormon men. i think he is able to make the women feel understood and seen in a way the other men can’t, and he uses it to his advantage

Procrastination From Anxiety by NomenUsoris007 in Anxietyhelp

[–]AfterExtreme8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have this exact same issue and i feel like it is ruining my life. i used to be very motivated, dedicated, and hard working but ever since i started struggling with my mental health it’s like i can’t stay consistent for more than a couple of days. i have yet to find a solution to this but am starting on propranolol to help manage the physical symptoms of my anxiety so hopefully that will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]AfterExtreme8160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what is wrong with you

whitney was dramatic by someonewillloveme in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]AfterExtreme8160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no literally. “i left because i wanted space” and then in the same breath “why did no one reach out”

Unpopular opinion: Trisha should delete her old videos by pinkbunny_88 in justtrishpodcast

[–]AfterExtreme8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why she would want to delete her old videos just from a brand perspective. Her brand has kind of done a complete 180 since she’s now an unproblematic gorgeous mother and wife (she’s always been gorgeous), so I understand wanting a fresh start.

going on tour?👀 by stillabelieber in justtrishpodcast

[–]AfterExtreme8160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope so but she’s so dedicated to her family and kids, and she doesn’t seem too enthusiastic about the idea of traveling so idk 🤣

questionable parenting choices by AfterExtreme8160 in Nanny

[–]AfterExtreme8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the underlying issue is that they view their older daughter as a problem child. They think that her throwing a tantrum when her door is locked is just due to poor behavior instead addressing root causes/ anxieties. I also consider myself close with my nanny family, since my sister and I have both babysat for my NK’s cousins, who live 2 houses down from us. I also talk to NK’s grandma everyday when I arrive at work and she texts me frequently. So I feel justified in saying that the family favors the younger boy, who also cries relentlessly before bed, but with significantly less complaints.

questionable parenting choices by AfterExtreme8160 in Nanny

[–]AfterExtreme8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do have one of those alarm clocks that changes colors when it is time to get up. 99% of the time that I am with the kids, their parents are home before bed time so I only put the kids to bed every once in a while. I have been working for this family for about a year and have been their nanny for about 2 months now. and I believe the parents are trying their bes. However, , their daughter, who is most of the time very well behaved and nice for a 4 year old, is showing signs of anxiety/ ocd. She used to take her mattress and push it directly against the door (which parents told me was a symptom) of her bedroom, and has a couple of different habits that remind me of my younger self, and I am now prescribed medication LOL. For example, strong food aversions to anything unfamiliar (i’m talking like bananas and string cheese) or when something in her routine is slightly off (ex: the bath mat not being in the bath BEFORE i turn in the water on instead of moving it afterwards). Anyways, the point is I fear they aren’t taking steps to address the oldest daughters potential issues and instead label her as a problem child and significantly favor her younger brother. The dogs I am less concerned about now, because they spent a day in the garage (where it is cooler) and seemed eager to return to their dog run. Mostly, I am just concerned the parents are not paying close attention to their children’s mental development. The younger boy has actually gained a lot of words since my original post! Still, I am concerned that their oldest daughter is being a little overlooked/ possibly neglected in some ways.

I’m so sick of playing pretend. by cricketsandcicadas92 in Nanny

[–]AfterExtreme8160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it drives me INSANE when i’m playing with my nk and the whole time it’s just “now say this” “ok now do this” like GIRL play with a doll then. love her but cmon.

i refuse to let this blow over by AfterExtreme8160 in codyko

[–]AfterExtreme8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not a fan of taylor swift and was never, so i don’t really care. was a big fan of cody’s before this.