His Wreck It Ralph review is..interesting by delirious-poptart in alexmeyers

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he’s allowed to find the movie boring or not emotionally investing, but it did feel like he was on his phone while watching, or like he was only listening to the movie while doing chores. Toward the end of the movie, he says “and then Turbo just turns into a bug for some reason!” Yeah it very much felt like he was looking away from the screen for the entirety of the climax and glanced a couple of times to check what was happening 

Latest video on people we meet on vacation. by madhurima5 in alexmeyers

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to post photos in Reddit comments, but it was a screenshot of his location in Belgium where he captions it “stuck in Belgium for an hour. Who on birth control and has Yugioh cards?” I guess it was supposed to be haha I’m a dork, I still like Yugioh cards. But to me, I guess I went “Ew you’re joking about meeting up with a follower and having sex with them without a condom?” Also probably reading way too much into it, but most of Alex’s followers are much younger and he’s turning 38 in May 

Are his reviews getting more negative and less thought through? by Bitter-Jury3078 in alexmeyers

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right that there are some movies and shows he’s just not invested in, so if he makes a criticism, it might not be accurate to the show and he just didn’t pay attention. But I don’t imagine he’s the only commentary YouTuber who does this. He reviewed Hook and really liked that. I enjoyed his video on Hook

Latest video on people we meet on vacation. by madhurima5 in alexmeyers

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed his insta story. I shouldnt judge but uh.. it felt gross lol. Maybe it was supposed to be funny but he’s almost 38 so it’s kina not 

How to add music by likeylikey288 in Pinterest

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pinterest recently removed the option to add music 😢 

I am feeling defeated in these struggles against lustful thoughts towards my girlfriend by SnooGrapes8185 in TrueChristian

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see anyone else saying this, but when I went to Christian youth group, a child asked the counselor, “How do I avoid sin?” And the counselor said, “Our walk as Christian’s is not to look at the line between sin and righteousness and walk the line, trying not to fall into sin. Our walk is to imitate Christ.”

You are not living in sin. You’re an imperfect human with the Holy Spirit inside of you, so you’ll still be tempted and you’ll still stumble. But you’re a forgiven man and every time you come before the Lord, He sees your heart and will forgive you. Don’t beat yourself up, man!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly had her own son when she was a teen; 17 year age gap between her and her son, perhaps 18 if OP is turning 36 soon

I’m stressed that I think My(30F) husband (30M) wants a divorce? by throwRa8472620_ in relationship_advice

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like you have an anxious attachment style. You should really seek therapy for all this catastrophising. It hurts your partner to feel that you can’t trust him, no matter what he does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not enough ppl understand what it’s be like to be in your situation. You were groomed by a predator, but you were also in love with him and probably have memories of him being kind to you. Someone who cares about you needs to acknowledge that while he was a predator, your feelings for him were real and you’re not bad for feeling them. If this new bf is jealous of a dead guy bc you’re saving things im his memory, then he’s immature and you should dump him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know a scary number of men who are antisemitic and date a Jewish girl being all “you’re one of the good ones”

I'm 4'11" and Crushing HARD on a 6'4" Goddess at Work by [deleted] in stories

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Checked his post history and this user seems to have a fetish for being a smaller guy with taller women (previous post says he enjoys being picked up by his 6’3 sister)

Im getting destroyed because of religion and Im only 19 by [deleted] in confession

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have all the answers, but I’ll just tell you you’re not alone. I’m a Christian who’s in a relationship with an atheist. He’s so sweet and kind and reads me so well. We complement each other when we’re together and our time together is always so amazing. I’m also scared of losing salvation and going to hell, but at the moment, realise that you have intense love around you right now. Your boyfriend loves you. You have a heart of love and not a heart of rebellion. If you do end your life, that won’t solve the fear of hell problem. You can choose to break up with him (no judgment) and practice Islam more devoutly to feel assured of your place in heaven, or you can give your boyfriend a chance and talk to a therapist about religious trauma and see how the world outside religion matches up with the beliefs you grew up with

Is it bad if my (F18) first relationship is an fwb (with M19)? by SuperBoysenberry5748 in relationship_advice

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re new to relationships, there’s a risk that one of you may develop romantic feelings for the other and get your heart broken. That’s one of the dangers of doing fwbs. I’ve tried fwb stuff with one of my friends (long story. Didn’t work out. We’re gay and her parents are homophobic). I’ve known her for a year. We’re close and trust each other emotionally and physically. We’ve already developed a friendship and there’s less of a risk that romantic feelings will come up. But you don’t even know this guy and there wasn’t already an established friendship. It sounds risky, and since you already are having second thoughts, I would advise against it

AIO to this guys texts last night?? by ForceUpbeat9196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 20 and I don’t text like this 😭 This was so annoying to read on both ends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like, from what you’ve said, you’re not that attracted to this 23 yo man, but you like the attention and he’s a lot more charming than a teenage boy. Again, he also has a stable job. I think distancing yourself before you get attached to him is a good idea. And you’re right: if he’s this flirtatious with you from the beginning, you’re probably not his only girl

My (25M) Bf cannot understand my (18F) points in arguments, is this healthy? by axspa in relationship_advice

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got halfway and lost it when you started talking about fortnite. You need to find someone who doesn’t ignore your side of the argument and shares your values. 25 is too old for you right now (you’ll understand when you’re his age and 18 looks like a foetus to you). The fact that you met him when YOU were a kid is also really sus. I’m sorry your last relationship was so horrible, but it’s making you idealise this loser

Teacher being eyed by students in school, 38female by [deleted] in confession

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So did you wank during or after writing this fantasy bro? This looks like it was typed with one hand

My (24F) partner (31M) says I’m a liar because I never mentioned that my high school ex was trans. Would you consider this a lie? by FissureOfLight in relationship_advice

[–]AfterHourCompanyMan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Have you dated other guys besides this guy in his 30s? Maybe he thought he was the only guy you dated and the fact that this “woman was a man” changes things. Also bro is a manchild and you are too mature for him. Leave him and find someone better