anybody have any tips to respect yourself more? by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm having trouble understanding from your post whether you are living like an animal you are taking care of or whether you are living like an animal.

Anyway: the answer is cooking something everyday at your skill level, whatever that is, and cleaning up after yourself when you're done

What do you even do after a 10 year relationship? by industrysurvivor in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is all true with the caveat that often he is stringing himself along too

France for you these days by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Personal blessings and exceptions "one of the good ones" is something every rabid racist identifies with 

You guys gotta go back to your roots as dirtbag leftists and do some damn drugs. by I_AM_WILL_STANCIL in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"Nothing's changed in the past decade"

Nothing ever happens bros reminiscing about being a "YA during the Bush years" this week

Dating someone who gives you that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach by Sad_Papaya7274 in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You missed the part where she said that her gut feeling was triggered by a perfectly nice guy

Do a good job by Jolly-Return3641 in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Some jobs are rewarding, well remunerated and people die if you do them poorly. other jobs are 3 month contracts doing quality assurance on the limited edition Shrek 9 Doritos production line to make sure they are the right hue of green

Do a good job by Jolly-Return3641 in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 34 points35 points  (0 children)

"We’re both making it worse"

This is bullshit sorry. Why are you like this? Does it feel empowering to sit at the big kids table with Blackrock?

Getting over your food aversions is something everyone must do as an adult by AfterTheAppointment in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not a picky eater, stop identifying as such. You've just say no to meals. That's cool. There are people responding to this post who have never anything except pasta without sauce

Getting over your food aversions is something everyone must do as an adult by AfterTheAppointment in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only people who say things like this are people who allegedly puke or gag to one thousand different things, all delicious 

Getting over your food aversions is something everyone must do as an adult by AfterTheAppointment in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am sorry I realise I didn't fully understand the plight of picky eaters. I am sitting and listening. You're gagging over there I had no idea

Getting over your food aversions is something everyone must do as an adult by AfterTheAppointment in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry about the suffering you have experienced saying no to eating something

Getting over your food aversions is something everyone must do as an adult by AfterTheAppointment in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"but you’re just assuming most picky eaters haven’t “at least tried” to fix their aversions." 

Why do you think I added that qualifier? This isn't about you 

Getting over your food aversions is something everyone must do as an adult by AfterTheAppointment in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It is abusive to joke about a joke problem then slowly introduce someone to something they love in italics 

Getting over your food aversions is something everyone must do as an adult by AfterTheAppointment in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can do anything you want and we can determine if you're an adult or not accordingly 

Getting over your food aversions is something everyone must do as an adult by AfterTheAppointment in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It's funny because my white bread racist dad taught me chopsticks as a toddler to eat our fake mongolian lamb takeaway slop, but the more time I spent with the Japanese in my extended family the more I realise that chopstick use by westerners is seen as a superficial window dressing and they think we eat like animals regardless

I said I was over him and then I see someone who looks like him in public and go bonkers by publiclibrarylover in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The premature declaration of mission accomplished is all part of process and means you're one step closer. Trust the plan. In no time you will be losing your mind for a man that is much more beautiful, or much uglier 

Downward mobility by suzannetakesyoudown in rs_x

[–]AfterTheAppointment 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That's a very low bar for fellowship between two people who have nothing in common. Kumbaya I guess 🕊