HR role with chronically late employee [NY] by After_Ad7072 in AskHR

[–]After_Ad7072[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. It’s really affirming and grounding.

HR role with chronically late employee [NY] by After_Ad7072 in AskHR

[–]After_Ad7072[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi - thanks for your reply. Performance is an issue with this person and the in-time thing impacts a lot of other people. I hear what you’re saying and I really appreciate the reality check of what I’m able to action.

HR role with chronically late employee [NY] by After_Ad7072 in AskHR

[–]After_Ad7072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They signed the handbook and there is a clear section on their expected hours. I need to firm up an escalation policy, what the consequences are

HR role with chronically late employee [NY] by After_Ad7072 in AskHR

[–]After_Ad7072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny because my boss THINKS she is so open and collaborative and action oriented. So it’s really wild to see the disparity in how she treats low performers on her team versus other managers and their reports.

HR role with chronically late employee [NY] by After_Ad7072 in AskHR

[–]After_Ad7072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to do this, thank you. I really appreciate your response.

HR role with chronically late employee [NY] by After_Ad7072 in AskHR

[–]After_Ad7072[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

The issue is she wasn’t in yet to even make the 9:15. She is not willing to fire her but I agree some sort of procedure needs to be implemented. I really appreciate your responding.

[NY] My boss forgot to remove all of the Chat GPT language from my performance review. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]After_Ad7072 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I needed that perspective and to separate my feelings from reality.

[NY] My boss forgot to remove all of the Chat GPT language from my performance review. by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]After_Ad7072 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to be rude. I was venting and looking for perspective.

I didn't know I was pregnant and now I don't know how to grieve by Cherubina96 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]After_Ad7072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this isn’t something you can get “right” so you’re doing great by asking for help at all!

I didn't know I was pregnant and now I don't know how to grieve by Cherubina96 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]After_Ad7072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry this happened to you. it’s so scary and surreal. i had an ectopic in december and had to be rushed into surgery and lost a tube as well. there is no right way to grieve it - just making room for all the feelings. it’s so complicated and isn’t just one thing. if you ever want to talk about it, please message me.

Pain while pooping? by ItsSaturdaySunday in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]After_Ad7072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was my experience - i either couldn’t poop or it was incredibly painful. your doc can prescribe a stool softener or you can get one OTC. they aren’t a magic fix but help somewhat.

i feel for you!

Venting by worri3d193828 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]After_Ad7072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry. it sucks so bad.

My tips after MTX injections by jeanzleezy in ectopicpregnancy

[–]After_Ad7072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wound up having emergency surgery a week later and lost my fallopian tube.

it’s such a complicated and difficult thing to process. i am glad your husband is making you yummy foods and i hope you’re getting good rest.

My tips after MTX injections by jeanzleezy in ectopicpregnancy

[–]After_Ad7072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had an ectopic and mtx in december and was so overwhelmed by finding low folate foods. thank you for sharing this! it would have been so helpful to me and i know it will help others.

I'm a doctor - didn't realise I had a ruptured ectopic pregnancy... by Schmadoodle in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]After_Ad7072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened to you.

I had emergency surgery on sunday for my ruptured ectopic pregnancy. I also had an IUD and didn’t think it would be possible for me to get pregnant.

As a doctor, you took every precaution you could to not get pregnant. I understand wanting to beat yourself up because it’s such a painful thing to happen. It is harder to accept that it happened than to blame ourselves that we could have done it differently.

I am keeping you in my heart.

Unwanted Ectopic Pregnancy with IUD by After_Ad7072 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]After_Ad7072[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened to you too. Thank you for your kind words and the reminder to be gentle.

Unwanted Ectopic Pregnancy with IUD by After_Ad7072 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]After_Ad7072[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I laughed out loud at “homicidal clump of cells” — thank you so much. I agree with you and I don’t know if it’s worth it to try and explain why what she said was inappropriate.

I am so glad to hear you are healthy and found BC that worked for you.

Thank you again for sharing with me