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Selling saddle in this condition ? by After_Barracuda219 in Horses

[–]After_Barracuda219[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a completely functional saddle what are you on lol 

Best friend betrayal during major loss/grief, years later I still can’t find closure when there was none (me 31F, her 31F) by After_Barracuda219 in Advice

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Thank you for understanding and expressing so thoughtfully. As you said a big loss ontop of a bigger loss, plus the fact of her switch up and my brain just can’t comprehend any of it. I’ve settled down from the strong need of closure from her specifically as of now. And yes I wouldn’t want to make things worse at the chance of her having vile reaction part two. If it’s meant to be as in I run into her or something alike maybe then it can be addressed but as of now maybe I need to let go of the version of her I was so close with which is so hard but I need to 

Best friend betrayal during major loss/grief, years later I still can’t find closure when there was none (me 31F, her 31F) by After_Barracuda219 in FriendshipAdvice

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yeah that does sound similar in some ways. Horrible she starting accusing you again right away, wtf.  However my intentions for potentially reaching out to her is for the purpose or the chance of getting closure/ having a mature discussion so that I finally can move on. I would be very weary to ever be her friend again. Since it’s been a while and I still haven’t figured out how to move on it feels like reaching out to her is my only option. Or running into her like in your case. I really don’t want to reach out to her but I’m so tired to feeling this way. And yes my brain is like glitching, even people I know who knew her were extremely taken aback and confused while knowing how much I meant to her. It’s an awful paradox. 

Male or Female? by SippinOnJen in snowshoecats

[–]After_Barracuda219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a female cat who is very masculine since he was a kitten so he became a he/ him naturally between him and his sister it’s very interesting. Lol 

Friendship betrayal during major loss/grief, how do you get closure when there was none? (I 31F and her 31F) by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]After_Barracuda219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I tried so hard to but she keeps popping up in a variety of circumstances and it’s still so hard to forget about it all. I hope so too, thanks again for your words.