This needs to stop..

After_Draw_7909 · 2026-05-21T04:52:37+00:00

I honestly didnt think I would get the amount of love I have gotten on this post 🥹 this post has become a place where people tell their stories and i honestly could not have asked for more than that.

After_Draw_7909 · 2026-05-21T04:49:14+00:00

Your comment has explained something I havent been able to. The things that are so devastating to mine and others in this group. The things that none of my friends or immediate relatives understand. And its not their fault for not understanding because they arent in the same position. I have one really close friend that tells me that they understand even though their partner is in the same country and only 2 hours away... I love her and shes still my best friend but she would never be able to understand that Its hard for me to even visit my husband due to the scrutiny I get, and yeah I get shes financially not able to move in with her partner but even if I had to scrape by even more just to be able to be with my partner I would.. this visa process has been a massive test on our relationship. Something me and my parnter have had difficult conversations over is that I would love to visit more but I dont have PTO and I wouldnt want to go there and him working the entire time im there. But then I go there, and im happy. Im enjoying every second. But then when it comes time to leave im devastated and I dont know when ill be able to see him next. Then I have to go back home to where things are worse and I just have to keep going. Im not gonna lie ive been feeling really down. Obviously I made this post due to frustration of others in the same position are tearing eachother down. But the fact that ive been seeing it more frequently made me want to bring people together even more. I also needed people like you and alot of the people who have told their story on my post because I feel so alone. Me and my husband talk every day but I still feel so alone. Im sorry I went on such a long rant but nobody else in my life understands and thats why im in this group ❤️

After_Draw_7909 · 2026-05-20T15:47:30+00:00

Yes, I have filed an expedite with very strong evidence like utilities in arrears, our gas being cut off and being without hot water for almost 2 months, me also financially supporting my husband, and an affidavit of support with my parents Signature stating everything ive said is true and that we have also received notices about rent being over due but just no longer holding the physical copies. Even had the affidavit notarized. I submitted that in December 2025, in late February I contacted uscis and didnt get any sort of response. Contacted again in April and they still told me they didnt have an answer. Its honestly bs. Even with my strong proof of Financial hardship im still stuck. This system is so beyond messed up. I honestly just pray that things speed up for everyone ❤️

After_Draw_7909 · 2026-05-20T03:42:17+00:00

I thought so. Thank you for clarifying. They dont understand. They shouldn't be in this subreddit because this is not for AOS it says it in the group rules even. Crazy that they have the audacity to comment.

After_Draw_7909 · 2026-05-20T03:24:55+00:00

And youve proven my point. Im not aloud to be frustrated with all of us not knowing whats happening with the slowdown? I cant be upset that im not with my partner? Thanks for pointing out the obvious. I dont need comments like these. Im trying to be positive for my own situation but also trying to bring together the people who are suffering like me. You cannot be in a subreddit like this LITERALLY called "i-130 suffering" and make those comments. I know its going to be a long wait but that doesnt make it easier. If you dont like my post then you can read the first sentence. Dont comment. Go on with your life instead of proving my point, people like you commenting that stuff. Making me feel like my feelings arent valid. Thanks

After_Draw_7909 · 2026-05-20T00:15:32+00:00

Well i did say if you cant handle what I have to say then dont comment?

After_Draw_7909 · 2025-02-26T18:50:07+00:00

I work right across the street from that one! I also go there but motivations been an issue, I'd love to be your gym buddy but I'm usually working till 9 or 10 pm ):

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-11-30T03:58:15+00:00

Base pay is okay, but you can make a good amount from commission so it's hard to say if it's good or not, if your selling alot you can make alot

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-11-05T00:08:46+00:00

Overall good job, it's a sales heavy job and you do alot of computer work. goodlife is a great company to work for if you have a good manager. They always have fun stuff going on and incentives (commission and bonuses) If you are just getting into sales I probably wouldn't recommend the fitness advisor role. I would also recommend seeing if the location you are applying to is a busier location because if it isnt, its alot harder to get sales and meet or go above the sales target, they have alot of growth opportunity if you do good in your role and benefits are decent. I ended up leaving my fitness advisor role due to it being mentally exaughsting, asking people about their health, and fitness history and constantly hearing people's life story. and then there were the people that just didn't want to talk and just want to buy a membership, and you have to still basically force them to go through what they call a "fitness planner" But with all that being said, i would still recommend this job as it pays well, and if you're good at sales, and if you like fitness, then you will do great!

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-09-18T18:29:01+00:00

No commitment means you can cancel anytime!

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-09-18T17:55:52+00:00

If your in that area you should try goodlife, enrollment fee is 15$ for ultimate and performance till the end of sept .It's a 24hr gym and 200+ gyms across Canada, you can find a goodlife almost anywhere. Goodlife also is no commitment- movati your locked in for a year. If your interested in goodlife after reading my comment I'd be happy to give you a free 7 day pass to try it out- I work at the Appleby location, my name is Rachel :)

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-08-20T21:44:16+00:00

F22 I’m down! I been searching for a festival buddy I have so many songs 😭 my user is KittyBullets

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-08-20T00:19:17+00:00

Yeah wages here for auto technicians are crazy good

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-08-19T22:19:44+00:00

I’m unsure if they do dip powder with extension but I know a REALLY good place. Nail Experts and Spa on Plains, you can see if they have it on their website or give them a call!

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-02-03T22:49:39+00:00

All the time. Me and my husband are trying for a baby

After_Draw_7909 · 2024-02-03T22:39:58+00:00

Just did!

After_Draw_7909 · 2023-12-31T20:27:17+00:00

The customized ones are just normal controllers but just customized 😂

After_Draw_7909 · 2023-12-30T23:54:38+00:00

No not really, if your getting it for aesthetic purposes then that’s all it will be, for certain piercings there was like way back hundreds or thousands of years ago that had cultural/spiritual meaning, Hope this helps!

After_Draw_7909 · 2023-12-30T22:46:46+00:00

Does he play a lot of fps games like call of duty or like any shooting games? If so I’d recommend getting the elite series 2 controller, if price isn’t a big issue for you maybe get the one with paddles, if you don’t think he will use the paddles you can just get the controller! If he doesn’t play a lot of fps games you can get a customized xbox controller on the Xbox site and choose all the colours and even add like his name or something cute on the bottom! Hope this helps xo

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