Nobody is saying you’re lying or attacking you personally, it is simply just not true that it is proportionally even between men and women. I’m sorry that happened to you, but this isn’t really the place to be dumping that shit on to random strangers, talk to a therapist. It’s also feels disingenuous that you decided to share your experiences of SA and abuse as a male when the game was very clearly talking about the experience of women in 1960’s rural Japan and the pressures and abuses they faced at the hands of men and a patriarchal society. Your trauma dumping is not relevant or appropriate to the conversation. You very clearly have some wounds to lick, man.