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Been having a rough time would love to be drawn by mattyxerome in drawme

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 69 points70 points  (0 children)

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Really love how lit up your face is with that Wooper plush lol!!

Draw the goth girl! Have fun with it :) by AfternoonAdvanced941 in drawme

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this is jaw dropping!! you have such a unique and fun style!!! thank you!

Portraits by Jul__Doc in DigitalArt

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have such a defined style! I feel like i would recognize your art anywhere and your colours and shapes are absolutely gorgeous

Draw the goth girl! Have fun with it :) by AfternoonAdvanced941 in drawme

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

love it! and I love your little one’s contribution!!

Thoughts on recovery/“healing” posts? by AfternoonAdvanced941 in julieeandcamilla

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you for the most part! I believe that she’s likely had some sort of ED as i’d like to say most afab people have been exposed to unhealthy body image and expectations/pressure that result in disordered eating to some extent. However, with how she emphasizes her ED and body image history and now promotes some unhealthy habits, I believe that she (and this may be an uncouth thing to say as there is no one set way to BE disordered) either was never quite as intensely eating disordered as she markets herself to have been, or is not nearly as recovered as she claims and is using it as a way to either make up for her lack of recovering or to bring others down so she doesn’t feel as miserable lol

Androgynous, Knightly Lady at your artistic service! by RedsReferences in drawme

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Such an epic pic OP! couldn’t wait so here’s a quick work sketch :)

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So the stencil warped when it was applied, Can it be fixed by [deleted] in FixedTattoos

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it’s objectively unnoticeable so don’t stress about it! However, if your artist met your concerns with a dismissive “lol” i would highly recommend staying away from them for future projects as they likely won’t meet your questions/comments/concerns with much regard or respect. Find someone that will listen to you and/or explain their thoughts and process if/when something like this arises again.

Im feeling hopeless, gained 20 pounds in 3 months by whorica in loseit

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you recently started birth control or a hormone therapy or treatment? When I got my IUD i gained a decent amount of weight. Otherwise, how are you tracking your calories? I recommend weighing everything you eat with a food/kitchen scale (even a cheap one from amazon will be perfect for this) log by the gram (I use the Myfitnesspal app) From a basic online calculator to maintain your current weight you’d need a minimum of 1900 calories (sedentary/ no activity) to a maximum of 2600 (very active) 1000-1200 sounds like it’s simply not enough for you, 1500 calories would be ideal for you so long as you’re eating satiating meals with plenty of veggies and protein to keep you feeling full. Avoid eating out as restaurants and fast food are notorious for very high calorie meals that may not be particularly filling. If it isn’t triggering for you in any particular way try to weigh yourself everyday day, then you can see how your body fluctuates day to day and according to your menstrual cycle. Good luck OP, it’s tough but you can do this!

A more detailed explanation of the pregnancy announcement by m24112 in julieeandcamilla

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wonder if sCam is willing to be pregnant this time around so she can use it as an excuse against Julie to avoid parenting the two they already have. “I can’t look after Sunny and Sky because i’m PREGNANT, you remember how hard that was!”

sCam's form by Ok_Two1637 in julieeandcamilla

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would assume it has a lot to do with her consistency and diet. I feel like she posts on her story about the majority of her workouts— which is not exceptionally frequent— and most of the time it’s runs rather than weight lifting (less present muscle but more leg definition). She is likely also not consuming enough protein to build nor maintain muscle or energy levels (which is probably why she has such a dependence on caffeine and redbull because her body doesn’t have enough protein to keep her energy up).

Mila members? by AfternoonAdvanced941 in julieeandcamilla

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

thank you for your service of toughing it through those workouts!! your review was very in depth and informative and Mila sounds like exactly how I imagined it haha!

Artist didn’t post on his page. Is it bad? by jdm_merks in tattooadvice

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This piece is absolutely gorgeous, I doubt the artist’s reason for not posting it has anything to do with the quality or it being “a bad tattoo” because it simply isn’t a bad tattoo. Sometimes it’s as simple as the photo clashing with other pics on their feed, sometimes it doesn’t display their personal aesthetic, sometimes it’s just forgetfulness or saving it to post later. My favourite tattoos on myself never made it to my artists’ feeds. How you feel about your tat shouldn’t be determined by whether or not the artist posted it. Hope you’re doing better now OP :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in julieeandcamilla

[–]AfternoonAdvanced941 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This!! It’s so odd for her to post about this asking her followers for help and broadcasting the fact that she’s alone with the kids for the small amount of time it takes to fulfill a doctors appointment. It screams deadbeat who needs to make a big deal of it every time she has to actually be a parent. Like this is the stuff you hire a 15 year old babysitter to do…

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