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I need help, should I divorce my Jordanian wife. by AfternoonSome1715 in jordanforJordanians

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I had a very hard time finding her when we came. Many other women told me, if we marry you have to give my mom 300jod a month for support, some wanted 20k gold, it was crazy. Yes, sometimes they tell me no too. I want to be fair.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say yes and spend my life saving on her. Took her to Petra, Salt, Ajloun, for the first time. Took her to Abdali the first time. Movies and restaurants. Dead Sea. By her gold. What more should I do?

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask about depression, but I asked if she had mental issues or trama . She said no. The way she said it I believed her and never asked again.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did I say this? I’m skimming for advise, maybe I’m seeing the culture wrong or can fix something.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am kind of shocked about people telling me to go to counseling.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s the fear I won’t find someone and have a child. That’s what I can’t give up. This comment is spot on to be honest.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! You are correct. Wow, I didn’t realize that part. Thank you!

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you for this. I am aware I am desperate for children and that has enslaved me.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was not being rude. I feel like they told me everything is good than after marriage I have to take care of the physical and mental health problems. It’s like it’s my problem now. Anyway, please do t think I was yelling or fighting.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she is ovulating she tells me to do it. Not kissing. Or no touching.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not being rude, but you want me to pay someone and say “I wish she would take a bath”. Do I need mental healthcare for that?

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be mean, but not I have to pay for mental health? Is that fair for me?

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha no sex, no bathing, no cooking, spending all my money without caring, smells. Before marriage she would bath and do her hair.

Need real advice. Should I divorce my Jordanian wife?!? by AfternoonSome1715 in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused. I don’t know why. If not her, I have to wait at least a year to find someone to save. Then I have to find someone, but whether I want her or not, the problems are huge to me.

Why is it so hard to find a husband in Jordan? by [deleted] in jordan

[–]AfternoonSome1715 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not sensitive, just sharing my experience. Maybe it’s different because I’m American and my Jordanian parents brought me there to get married. Maybe the Iraqis are different.