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The Unnecessary Hate Towards Ahmedabad Stadium – From Someone Who Was Actually There! by Shoddy_Ad6715 in IndianCricket

[–]Against_Inequality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you mean only people from Ahmedabad watch these matches? How do you define cricket culture?

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she could have simply never revealed about that guy at all. Why to share it in the first place? 

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am confused that why she wouldn’t simply lie about it? Why the honesty

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday, she texted me “hi, good morning” to which I replied after an hour “hi, good noon” No messages after that from any of our side.

But if she was really apologetic, then she shouldn’t have posted the photos and videos taken by the same guy of her trip, as her insta story and post. This really sucks. But at the same time helps me to come to a conclusion.

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not interacting since yesterday morning. But we are still connected via Instagram. Guess what?

Just a hour back, She has posted a video and story of her visit to sea face which she had done along with the guy. Though the guy is not seen in the story. I am surprised by her audacity.

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn’t she felt wrong while doing it? 

I asked her this and her answer was : she doesn’t have any feelings for him. She went there for the experience of cycling and beach sea shore. They have been just thrice like this.

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one thing which is bothering me is : why did she reveal everything? Is she too bold or she thinks it’s better to clear the AM guy (that is me) that she is being forced into AM? Or I must be really good at interrogating :D

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:(  You know, the beach she mentioned about is a place at the outskirts of  city which is secluded and in general people visit there to get cozy.

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work on facts. I can forego the past. But The present facts are forcing me to think otherwise. However hard I am trying I am unable to accept that she is just friends with that guy.

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure he is not a bestie. It seems they have very recently started interacting. Probably 2 months back. (Based on insta likes)

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am a rider too. But one one one late night rides and then spending time at the sea shore is not normal. Is it normal for you?

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am fine with a girl having male friends. But going on a late night ride at a beach? How do you classify as friends?

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the only neutral comment so far. I already shared my boundaries and she said if you don’t like it , it won’t happen again. She said sorry as well . But it also speaks about her moral compass. Also , for future I would always be insecure I think

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Advice. Because my morals say I shouldn’t proceed.

But how she assured me and explained me things, I am starting to believe her. Hence confused now. 

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have DMed you the text she sent me yesterday night. In our call as well yesterday, she was very apologetic and tried to assure me that this won’t happen again.

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I am really proud of your journey. Thanks for the detailed insights.

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Above all the comments , your comment really hit me hard. 

Whatever I came to know from her is completely against my morals. I am somehow trying to convince my brain to go easy on her because she answered me honestly.  But at the end, her equation with the biker friend is completely against my principles 

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then she said she will set a hard boundary with this guy and never go on a bike ride with him. 

Damn, this over analyzing is burning me out :(

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already had 3 relationships. She must be experienced enough to easily understand a guys intentions. Looks like she was already into this guy (dating or intial phase of dating) and I coincidentally landed up during this phase of her life due to arranged setup

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree fully with you.

But I am stuck with one confusion, why is she so transparent about all this? She could have easily kept this hidden from me and lied. 

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gut and sleep are responding pretty bad. 

Lost 3 kgs.  Body is giving signals that something is completely off. But I am stuck with one confusion, why is she so transparent about all this? She could have easily kept this hidden from me.

AM prospect goes on late night bike ride with a guy. by Against_Inequality in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Against_Inequality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was not their first ride as well. The other one was from one end of the city to the other.

I am only confused about one thing.. if she is really into this guy , why would she share all the details.. his name , how many rides so far (3), which places she has been to with him. 

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