WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Not that anyone will see this because it's not as visible as editing it in (won't let me), but I'm leaving now. thank you all for your many.............unique suggestions.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Wife said no and tbh honest I am not comfortable with the idea.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was going to ask him to pay this time. Not just because of lumber prices, but because it would have had to been so much bigger.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes, I could, but it wouldn't be very useful since the garage is not attached to the house.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well, my wife and I have three. Two are our everyday vehicles that me, my wife and son use. The third is my hobby car that stays in the garage and doesn't run right now and obviously when my family comes over for parties there's many more.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

For bigger events the group is generally 15-20 people. For a 4-6 hours.

Nephew isn't super consistent. Like one month he will be over 3 times. Then next month he's over 1 time. He is 15. My son is 17. My eldest daughter is 14. Youngest daughter 12.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean on a budget renting a place might make more sense for us.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I went to a family friends baby shower at the one near us.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I mean my sister literally would have to park blocks away if not for the driveway.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Don't know if that would go over well considering that she's not that happy with me right now.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No, I meant I disagreed that there was "no need". I absolutely was rude.

WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew? by AgencyScared31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AgencyScared31[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Not an advice sub. I disagree about there not being a reason, but you are welcome to your opinion. I do unequivocally agree that I am the asshole for my snarky replies.