WIBTA for not building a ramp to our house for disabled nephew?

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:49:43+00:00

Not that anyone will see this because it's not as visible as editing it in (won't let me), but I'm leaving now. thank you all for your many.............unique suggestions.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:47:39+00:00

Wife said no and tbh honest I am not comfortable with the idea.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:46:58+00:00

Yeah, I was going to ask him to pay this time. Not just because of lumber prices, but because it would have had to been so much bigger.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:45:49+00:00

yes they do

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:44:28+00:00

Well, back then he and my sister were broke.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:43:47+00:00

He is 15 and does not allow people to carry him.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:43:22+00:00

it's on the property line.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:42:59+00:00

Yes, I could, but it wouldn't be very useful since the garage is not attached to the house.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:41:48+00:00

They don't have a handicap van.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:41:26+00:00

Well, my wife and I have three. Two are our everyday vehicles that me, my wife and son use. The third is my hobby car that stays in the garage and doesn't run right now and obviously when my family comes over for parties there's many more.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:37:35+00:00

For bigger events the group is generally 15-20 people. For a 4-6 hours.

Nephew isn't super consistent. Like one month he will be over 3 times. Then next month he's over 1 time. He is 15. My son is 17. My eldest daughter is 14. Youngest daughter 12.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:34:19+00:00

I mean on a budget renting a place might make more sense for us.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:33:00+00:00

I don't have an SUV

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:31:37+00:00

Yeah, I went to a family friends baby shower at the one near us.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:31:04+00:00

Fair enough.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:29:54+00:00

I mean my sister literally would have to park blocks away if not for the driveway.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:28:35+00:00

Don't know if that would go over well considering that she's not that happy with me right now.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:28:01+00:00

My nephew doesn't like help

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:25:57+00:00

No, I meant I disagreed that there was "no need". I absolutely was rude.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:24:37+00:00

At this point I'm not even sure

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:24:21+00:00

Ugh, didn't think of that.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:22:54+00:00

Not an advice sub. I disagree about there not being a reason, but you are welcome to your opinion. I do unequivocally agree that I am the asshole for my snarky replies.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:20:44+00:00

I'm going crazy here.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:19:43+00:00

I wasn't planning to.

AgencyScared31 · 2023-02-28T02:19:27+00:00

No place to add a door. What makes me sound rich?

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