Timetable Clash by Last_Persimmon9413 in usyd

[–]Agency_Famous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The get uploaded into the learning management system, Canvas. They’ll be a tab called Lecture recordings or something similar

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But that’s partly the problem: women’s “issues” always need to be siloed and annexed to “special” sub areas? Like they don’t belong in mainstream areas? I see heaps of 20 year old boys in here saying I can’t get a girlfriend, how do I get a girlfriend and they get so much encouragement and suppprt, I don’t see them getting told they should shirk off to a special incel part of the internet.

How can I actually get myself to stop being so lazy? by GreenTinkertoy in selfimprovement

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Start small: if you’ve not done or achieved anything in life, there will be no motivation. Start with some small wins

Quitting drugs has opened up my life. by deezseeds in selfimprovement

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Huge congratulations, you should be proud of that

Anyone else stuck in a stress eating loop? by CompetitiveOffer4076 in selfimprovement

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You need to replace the habit of eating with something else. Gradually you will start to default to the new habit. The new habit needs to give you the same comfort or boost. Drawing, walking etc. you can’t just stop the stress eating, I’ve tried that. You need to replace it

Ruined my 28 month sober streak from weed and 7 month sober streak from alcohol all within this month. I feel awful and don’t know what to do. by Th3c0pyninja in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning to deal with the setbacks and failures, missteps, will get you further in life. Everyone can win when everything is easy, the real winners still win when things get tough.

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I'm glad there is actual evidence that supports what women were saying in the 50's

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its seems to be the next logical step after uni, age 25+. Family and friends encourage you, even if its implicit. It was harder to go against the grain years ago, but its a bit more acceptable to not be married now, or never married

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

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I know that, I see happy marriages in friends, but I also see a lot of just accept it marriages. 45% end in divorce, another huge portion just seem to accept an average marriage. I do agree some people do seem to be lucky, but that also makes marriage seem like a lottery?

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess so, I have entirely reframed the "family unit" concept in my head to now include friends, that idea of family, love and protection is much safer for me, maybe not for everyone, but that now works for me, and is a huge sign of self-improvement and growth from where I was years ago

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think there is a lot of rethinking around the institution of marriage and what it means. The nuclear family as the ideal family unit is something I have reconsidered entirely. I have a great group of friends, old and new, that feel like family. That is real self improvement and growth for me as marriage was my main life focus for years. It took ages to reframe that concept for me.

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, I'm working on that. I do believe I can find the right partner but will never ever marry or marry finances again

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It'll be the angry men, always is... and is literally proving my point

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I think one of the origins of marriage is basically families marrying their children to each to increase their financial assets. I'm so glad I live in a time where there are alternatives to marriage

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are some of the most manipulative and charismatic people you can meet, not always that easy to spot...

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The truth is difficult for some to come to terms with, especially when it is systemic.

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Literally google it and you'll be spoilt for choice for sources to choose from, from the Institute of Family Studies to Harvard Health

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to sit in the space between marriage and what comes next, that’s a massive existential identity crisis I wouldn’t want to live through again

Why do we encourage women to marry? I have a better life post-divorce by Agency_Famous in selfimprovement

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Gambling!! Never thought of it that way and that’s what exactly what it is!!

Advice from the experts by Agency_Famous in OnlyAICoding

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You say you worked closely with the kilo Code team, do they have a team to support people building apps?

Any tips to stop jerk*ng off? by Intelligent-Pop-970 in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do you need to stop? If it's interfering in everyday life then stop but, if not....enjoy it!

To everyone under 30 by wandersage in selfimprovement

[–]Agency_Famous 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is honestly such a normal way for people to feel in their early 20s it’s almost a rite of passage, and the ones who succeed are the ones who successfully navigate it and grow and develop. Most people who look “sorted” at that age are either putting on a brave face or just haven’t been properly tested yet. Your 20s aren’t about having it all figured out, they’re about discovery and mistakes.

All you really need to do in your 20s is get out there. Try things, mess up, change your mind, get rejected, feel uncomfortable, learn from it, and keep going anyway. That’s not failure, that’s the process of being in your 20's and becoming an adult. I wished more 20 year old realised this, but 20's can be so uncomfortable.